I know it may take a long time to feel like this is relevant, but please try to understand that living vicariously through someone else is never healthy. It's not healthy to live for someone else, either.
Find reasons to stand on your own, even if it's something "silly" or "dumb" to others. Find something YOU care about, regardless of how anyone else feels. Find a community that can reinforce that interest.
I know it can sound stupidly cliche, but find a reason for YOU to live first, on your own, before you expect others to stick around through rough patches in a way that you want. Very few people even can offer much beyond a hug in such rough times, so don't be too put off by people not having a perfect answer to hand to you.
and it will mean less than nothing to a fascist that doesn't care about popular opinion. He has his yes-men already, and they're WORSE than him...