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  • I personally like "Do you have that dream where you keep trying and trying to wash your hands but the blood never comes off"

  • Watch Wolf of Wall Street - extremely NSFW btw - or if you cannot handle watching it, read the book.

    For some, the money isn't even the point, it's the thrill of the con game.

    For billionaires though, it's something on a whole other level. Like, look at pictures of them - Zuckerberg, Musk, Bezos, etc. - there's something not right there at all. They are playing an entirely different kind of game when, e.g., they don't even allow their workers to take breaks to pee, even if they are pregnant. Ofc YOU would not do that, nor likely would anyone that you know, nor would even meet in your entire lifetime. Who would do such a thing!? (unless their boss mandates it ofc, so like they would get fired if they don't, I mean like if nobody was forcing you to do so and yet... you did it anyway, and then you also forced thousands of other humans people to do it too)

    That's why they are a billionaire and you and I are not - b/c they are on a whole other level. It's true, money cannot buy happiness, but they are damn sure going to watch cause the world to burn while they try.

    • There was a twilight zone episode called "a nice place to visit" where this petty crook died and ended up in a place where he could have anything he wanted any time. Every time he'd gamble, he'd win. Every woman he talked to wanted him. Etc. But he couldn't lose.

      A billionaire can have anything, but without challenge nothing really means anything. It's all fake, and they're surrounded by people who just agree with them in order to get to their money. They have no friends. They can't even go outside. They're trapped in the mansions and sports cars and yachts, unable to live in or even experience the world they have so much influence over. They are trapped by their wealth, so they come up with impossible plans to escape... To Mars, to space... But there is no escape. They are trapped on a world they are killing, surrounded by people who they need who also hate them.

      The crook in the twilight zone episode asked to lose or get turned down, wanted some kind of challenge. He didn't want to be in heaven anymore... And he was informed that he was not in heaven. That was hell.

      Of course they're broken. They're in a living hell that everyone imagines is heaven.

      Both Bezos and Musk were also abused or neglected by their parents. They feel like they have to prove something, but there's nothing to prove and the people they want to prove themselves to are dead.

      • Musk's father is actually a pretty big asshole, so he probably was abused and neglected. Not sure about Bezos.

        Not that it excuses anything about either of them.

      • I love sci-fi, and fantasy too, in large part bc that is a way of seeing clearly into the real world, when you can isolate things and put them into a different context that makes it easier to digest.

        I think you hit the nail on the head and also, I think that it's arguably not even their fault. Hear me out! If you were a person with IQ of 300 let's say and you are talking to a literal toddler who says "let's go eat at Arby's", and you do and get food poisoning... then how do you avoid that again in the future? Kill the toddler? Or perhaps learn not to let toddlers control all of our actions? After all, the toddler was not fully aware of the consequences of their own actions, nor were you at the time, but of the two, one is capable of learning more readily than the other. It is partly the result of the toddler's actions that you got sick, but not solely, and perhaps not even mostly.

        Billionaires got rich via the system, and aside from those particular individuals there are many more that would follow them. Being merely "rich" isn't (only) the problem, it's the entire system that produces that. However, it is too late for that now, bc the toddler has been elected King and it is no longer an option to change the system. At some point technology will allow billionaires to become effectively immortal, and they may gain super powers besides that as well - already they have access to "medical care" and "a place to live that they actually own" and other things that are fast disappearing for the rest of us. e.g. when it becomes common again for the average person to die of easily preventable diseases, even a lifespan of 1-200 may be a close approximation of that in comparison. Soon we mortals may also lose "access to information", since it will become diluted so much by the flood of misinformation that basically "what we know" will devolve into what we are allowed to know, by those who with the touch of a button could cause the media outlets, which they own, to put out an authoritative story telling us whatever truth they wish us to hear.

        In any case, that is why I support being subversive - e.g. they are unkind to their workers, so we can oppose the trend by being kind to our fellow human;-). Whether it works or not, it's also a lot more fun.

  • It's a pissing contest. Who has the biggest number on their account.

  • Bluntly, they need the money to make more money.

    Most people of any significant wealth have a majority of their money/assets tied up in investments and other things. They're worth that much basically on paper only. Their actual liquid monetary assets are generally very small in comparison to their "worth".

    They're generally taking a relatively small cut off the top for their personal spending, and reinvesting whatever else they have "earned". Once you get past a certain point with wealth, as long as you're not stupid about it and ether invest it yourself or hire a firm to do it for you, more wealth is a normal outcome of having wealth.

    There are calculations, as you may expect, to perform payouts "in perpetuity" (aka "forever") which can account for growth/inflation. Personally, if I suddenly became ultra rich, I would find a good balance between how I live now and how I want to live, estimate what I would need to earn to acquire that lifestyle, then do the calculations to find out exactly how much I need to hold onto to achieve that, then either donate or otherwise give away the rest. I'd keep a healthy buffer on how much I'm keeping, and likely use some of it to update/upgrade key items in my life, not lavishly, but something better than I currently have (renovations to my home, upgrade for my vehicle, computers, electronics, etc)... Once my needs, both immediate and in the future) are satisfied and I have that extra "buffer" taken care of, the rest is useless to me.

    I'd likely start with large donations to causes I believe in, and gift large sums to friends with coaching on how to make that money work for them as I did for me. My friends and I could become financially independent with a large enough financial "win".

    I don't need more than what I require to maintain a fairly modest lifestyle. I don't like, want, or desire any "glamour" or "fame". I mainly want to be left alone. Paying off my house and having a good amount of passive income from investments is sufficient for me (where passive income grows with inflation year over year). Beyond that, I have no use for wealth. I only want enough that I can make that money "work" for me on the way that I'm no longer required to work. If my investments and buffer result in significantly more than I need being generated, I would give that extra away.

    But I'm more communally focused than anything. Helping my friends and neighbors is more important to me than the idea of "more for me".

    To circle back to the point, wealth is the ultimate indicator of success in capitalism. People with excessive wealth are seen as some of the most important and influential people in a capitalist society. So to their mind, they're important because of the money that they have. The mere suggestion of giving most of it away tends to be taken as handouts to those who haven't earned it. Artificially inflating that person's statue in society while diminishing their own. They're at the top of the ladder of success in their mind, giving away their fortune puts them lower on the social ladder of success and therefore it's unacceptable. The wealth they have is the representation of their importance, and by diminishing it, even a little bit, they're "moving down" on the ladder of success, which is something that they never want to do.

    I don't agree with that, but I understand it. I'd personally gladly sacrifice my own excesses to bring people up. I only want for enough to secure my ability to provide for me and my family. Anything beyond that isn't useful to me. I have no illusions of grandeur that because I have money I'm somehow better than anyone. I hold the opposite view, where earnings well above what is required to secure yourself financially, are unnecessary, and shouldn't be kept. We're all supposed to be equals in a democracy, but people who are aggressively capitalist see it differently.

    • *I only want enough to live comfortably for the rest of my life.

      Okay this is great, I've got my house and enough money to live comfortably without worrying about the market at all.

      Okay so I want a house in the city, but I also really value being able to get away from the bustle and noise of the city with a place by a lake in the country.

      Well I can't really relax while my parents and siblings stress about money. I need them to be reasonably comfortable too. I'll set up trusts for them then relax by the lake and everything will be perfect.

      This is great, but it's a bit lonely up here at the lake by myself, I need a partner. I'll try to meet some people in the city.

      Everybody sucks once they find out I have money, yes I have enough money but I'm not in the business of buying dinner for everyone, we're still going to split the cheque. Everybody's just after my money. Well the people at the golf club are also interested in my money (well doing business) but at least they don't treat me like a meal ticket. Maybe I'll join.

      Well I met the perfect partner. We deserve a wedding that won't embarrass us in front of our friends. Finally we can relax and live a quiet simple life by the lake in the country.

      Wow, my partner's the best they really fulfill me. I should get them their dream car for their birthday.

      Wow three kids, that happened fast. These are objectively the best humans in the history of the world. Also, I need to make sure they can focus on doing the amazing things I know they're capable of without having to worry about student debt or part time jobs. More trusts. Soon it will be enough and I can focus on philanthropy. We need a bigger house, and a lake house that's closer to the city.

      The kids are complaining that they want a proper skiboat. Isn't two weeks in the alps enough skiing every year? Kids will be kids, and I'm happy they like to spend time at the lake I guess.

      These fucking spoiled brats want goddamn Ferrari's for their 16th birthdays. No way. I draw the line at Audis. And now the ski boat sucks because it doesn't have ballast tanks to throw a wake for wake surfing. JESUS FUCKING CHRIST MAKE THE WHINING STOP.*

      But all of that is probably like $10M. So fuck Bezos.

      • This wouldn't be me. I'm in a long term relationship, I have very few long term friends, a very small circle, and they've stood with me through thick and thin, good people, not the kind to take advantage; I'd still want to take care of them as best as I'm able with whatever I can. Mainly focusing on paying off debts.

        I don't really have need to find new friends, not flaunt my wealth nor horde it. I don't want to move, there are very good reasons why I'm living where I am and money doesn't change that. I don't want nor need multiple properties for myself; I don't like cities, I'm already living in a rural neighborhood.

        If I were to move, I would only be doing it to have a bit more land. Our house is on a fairly small plot. I'd rebuild my existing house in a nearby location. The only real change would be adding a bit more floor space. But I wouldn't retain my existing property. I would continue to have only one home, in a rural location.

        I don't really want anything lavish, just a little more land.

        That's probably the biggest change I would actually make given enough money to do it, and the costs would be recouped in part by selling my current home...

        I'm just happy with what I have. Largely, I don't want more than I do, I just want to be comfortable, and not worry about money.

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