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  • The shooting was almost definitely a false flag operation. I saw the video of the journal being shown. The entire thing is in the cerrylic alphabet (so people watching russian TV can read it) . But it's 100% set up to justify sending you to a "wellness camp" so either run to a different country or hide out Anne Frank style. I don't think I'm being needlessly alarmist either.

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Berengaria_of_Navarre @lemmy.world

    How did you settle on a name?

    I recently came to the conclusion that I was definitely supposed to be a woman (yay me). But I've spent the first half of my life trying to suppress that thought, that I hadn't put much thought into what I'd like to be called.

    I'm trying to find a name which would suit a relatively butch lesbian with a mischievous personality who was born on terf island to boomer parents in the 80s but also works in Scandinavia. My given name has a female version, but it sounds weird for a Britt.

    What made you settle on your names?

    rule

  • But also be careful because they're going to start rounding up the trans community and sticking them in wellness camps soon. Genuinely you should all get out of the country soon. There are vastly more fascists than trans people.

  • It sounds like you need to talk to a psychologist/therapist who specialises in gender dysphoria. They would potentially be able to help you arrange your thoughts on the matter. No-one is going to be able to give you a definite answer on the internet and nor should they. I can tell you that I am going through the hatching process at the moment and am experiencing something similar. I'm a long way past puberty (old enough to be your parent) and the thing that bothers me is that I didn't adress this sooner. If I had investigated my gender identity at your age I might have enjoyed my adult life and not spent every day depressed and angry at everything.

    It's possible that you aren't transgender or that you are. But even if you aren't it's still useful to know that. If you know any trans girls IRL you should talk to them about it and see if your experiences align with theirs. Also, I don't know about your family situation or political environment where you live, but if you could see a therapist, it wouldn't hurt. Just make sure you address it soon because you don't want to spend the next few decades of your life miserable. Again I'm not saying you are or aren't trans. Only you can figure that out.

  • Relief. I didn't expect jubilation but there was always a chance she would have reacted negatively. But, she's pretty autistic and her tone was pretty deadpan, which looking back should have been what I expected.

  • Came out to my SO after watching Priscilla queen of the desert. She had no reaction beyond "please keep your penis, I like it." Other than that, she likes the idea of me with hips and boobs and is very supportive. Am going to talk to my doctor about it today.

    Edit: been to the doctor and am getting a referral to a psychologist for diagnosis.

  • That really sucks, I'm sorry 😔.

    I'm also from a rural place where everyone knows each others business all the time and it's exhausting dealing with it. I haven't actually started transitioning in any meaningful way, but I'm 100% not going to present as female there. At least until my very transphobic parents kick the bucket. After that I'm just not going to go back.

    Just try to stay positive and keep going. Civilization isn't that far away. You can do it!

  • Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Berengaria_of_Navarre @lemmy.world

    My Christmas list is short, if anyone's feeling generous

    A set of genetically identical ovaries would be awesome.

    Sorry for the first link that popped up. Don't know where that came from. Fixed it now

    Transfem @lemmy.blahaj.zone
    Berengaria_of_Navarre @lemmy.world

    Possible egg cracking situation. Would appreciate some feedback.

    CW: transphobic boomers. This is going to be a rambling mess. Sorry

    So I've definitely had some form of gender dysphoria for as long as I can remember. It's usually manifested as relatively mild things like having significantly more female friends than male friends, choosing female video game characters, and liking more traditionally female hobbies like baking fancy cupcakes. But I never really "acted like a girl" or dressed up and have absolutely no interest in makeup or clothing.

    I'm also very much into girls so I never really gave gender much thought. That being said I was always very envious of my lesbian friends because I'm of the opinion that there's nothing more beautiful than two women in love. Although I mostly had bi girlfriends so maybe I give off certain signals.

    Now when I mentioned choosing female characters, I mean exclusively. The only male character I've chosen was my avatar on stardew valley and then only because my SO wanted to play with me as me. And to be