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0x2640 Lily [she/her, pup/pup's] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

she/her, pup/pup's

trans demisexual bisexual sapphic useless disaster lesbian puppygirl

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perulesonality
  • omgosh yessssssss we luv dis song (n artist :3)

  • perulesonality
  • literally us hihi

  • perulesonality

    had the old 196 blocked, might stick around with this one. mods seem much better.

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    rule
  • its meeeeeeee

  • an unconventional anti-dysphoria trick: blurring your vision
  • do a very similar thing ourselves, super valid

  • the Signs(TM)
  • ur super valib

    awwwruf :3

    ur experience is semi-similar to ours~ perhaps therian would be a good discriptor?

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    is funni me-me acceptable here? 🥺
  • guess we'll list out ours

    1: zzzzzz

    2: used to but depression :3

    3: :c

    4: we use nixos btw

    5: awwwrrrufff!!!

    6: no

    7: :c

    8: no

    9: no

  • Thoughts on reducing estrogen dose to form stockpile?
  • 21G is too large for long term repeated drawing, 23G or smaller should be used. additionally you dont need to use different needles for drawing and injecting (despite popular belief. subq is not better than IM or "more fool-proof", infact subq can be worse for many due to irritation. ideally you would want fixed needle syringes for lowest deadspace, as the vial will last longer.

    it should also be noted vials have a shelf life of 2-4 years, so you arent able to stockpile more than that

  • How's your week been?
  • uhhhmm uhhmm yeahh,,,,,,, has totally been going great,,,, no existential dread or anything :3

  • Trans Voice Help @lemmy.blahaj.zone Lily [she/her, pup/pup's] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    Lilith's Voice Training Resource Compendium

    Bunch of random resources people may find useful, will update this post as new resources come along. Mostly from Reddit, any posts have been uploaded as PDFs to read.

    [ A Mixture of Different Resources ]

    • https://transvoice.party/ - a website that links to some more resources and talks about other stuff

    • https://wiki.sumianvoice.com/wiki/pages/getting-started/ - Sumi's wiki. It's got a bunch of stuff with her own spin. Though you can see roots in other things too. You might find it useful.

    • https://selenearchive.github.io/ Selene's clips

    • https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/1cnqqttn.pdf Some advice on getting started

    • https://cramdvoicelessons.blog/ Scinguistics' blog. Their takes are a little bit divergent from the general consensus at times but there is value to be found!

    • https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/symceraa.pdf Mimicry advice from Jana

    • https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/kcemii5t.pdf Some advice on practicing from Kin Maynard

    • https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/5ksjvuak.pdf The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People

    • https://0x2640.estrogen.productions/zraqbvzv.pdf Introductory Voice Training Resources Version 2.0

    • https://www.undeadvoice.com/guide trans voice mega guide

    • https://buymeacoffee.com/alyssavt/no-explanations-instructions-feminizing

    [ Some useful Videos from Trans Voice Lessons ]

    https://www.youtube.com/@TransVoiceLessons/videos Channel link.

    https://youtu.be/oWmj73Ttp4E Learn to hear size/resonance better

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fylIX28mlyY Practice advice

    https://youtu.be/rvet1PwCoGY An ear training live stream

    https://youtu.be/imdM3Cea4NA Voice surgery live stream

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gHyVNIcw_XI some common myths

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    Trans Voice Help @lemmy.blahaj.zone Lily [she/her, pup/pup's] @lemmy.blahaj.zone

    The Voice Book for Trans and Non-Binary People

    A 261 page book going over voice training. May be helpful to some. Link if you can't access it from the post.

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    Reaching Out For Help

    After much consideration and fighting with my brain, I've decided that it's okay to ask for help in hard situations. So, I'm making this in hope that I receive at least a little bit of help. I'm asking for money, friends, and any advice you can give me. Everything counts and will help me during this rather terrible time. I'm Uni (name TBD) and I'm a 16 y/o transgirl unfortunately situated in the USA. You may know me as a regular on the Blahaj Matrix chats going by "Miss Universe".

    So a little bit (a lot?) of backstory to sort of explain my current situation. My egg cracked October last year and it was both the best and worst thing that has happened in my life so far. Being a minor means that I can't really do anything about the fact that my egg cracked, I'm fully relying on the people around me to help me (which has failed). Put simply, as a minor I have absolutely no control over my body or my life, I have no money, no experience, and nowhere to go.

    I came out to my mother and step-father (my parents are divorced) February this year, and while they seemed to be supportive at first they semi-recently turned on me and have been mostly unsupportive since then.

    As for my father and step-mother, they are both actively transphobic republicans. I have no plans on coming out to them until after I turn 18, and it would be unsafe to do so before then.

    Basically, as of now I have basically no support from anybody in my life and I'm completely trapped as my dysphoria gets worse with each passing day.

    With my situation sort of explained(?), why am I actually here? Pretty much I'm here because I need money. Money for clothes, makeup, just stuff that can hopefully help me alleviate some of my dysphoria until I'm able to afford to do so myself (which as a minor is difficult). And also I suppose gas, in case it comes to it and I need to run away, even for a short period. I'm also looking for advice, I don't really know what to do and it would be really nice to have at least some semblance of what I could be doing right now.

    I don't really know if any of that made sense, I'm bad at organizing my thoughts and even worse at asking for help. If you have any questions post them in the comments and I can probably answer them.

    You can support me here on Buy Me a Coffee if you so wish, and/or with advice in the comments. Every donation counts.

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