Did you just have this on hand, waiting for the perfect moment to deploy it?

What eldritch horror have u shown me

Toupee fallacy

There's a spectrum of Ace. I got one am a heteroromantic ace, and I'm a dude. So I am attracted to women romantically, but don't want to sleep with them.

It's a very frustrating combination that makes dating difficult.

personally, it's kinda hard to say? i have felt romantic attraction exactly once in my life, so i know i'm not fully aromantic, but also it's only happened once so i'm probably on the aro spectrum somewhere

but yes, there are many people who are asexual but who still feel romantic attraction to others

(and of course, not all attraction is sexual or romantic, there is also aesthetic attraction for example (literally just when you find people pretty), which i do feel, my meme was pretty reductive all things considered, but then again it's just a meme)

Hot take: pansexual people are better off than people with a specific genital fetish.

Chocolate starfish, leather cheerio, balloon knot.

let’s be real men’s feet are pretty nasty

Yo, check out ballerina feet.

A foot fetish sort of works its way into your brain over time. The synapses for feet and sexual attraction are extremely close to each other, so when you do things like, hold someone's feet during sex, or give them a foot rub during foreplay, there's a chance your brain may start making that connection that feet are an erotic thing. For me, it started after being married for a few years, and she just sort of flexed her toes during sex in such a way that it gave me goosebumps, in a good way. Granted I'd been giving her foot rubs for a few years by that point...but oh...my god. When it clicked that it was a turn on for me, it was a game changer.

Surprisingly Sonic isn't pregnant here.

You're not picking up what I'm laying down.

I'm not arguing that feet and breasts aren't capable of providing sexual stimulation from a first person perspective. I'm saying that from a third person perspective, theres nothing about them which inherently arousing; that arousal stems from novelty.

...that's not what secondary sex characteristic means. As the article you linked says, that just means physical characteristics unrelated to the reproductive system that differ between the sexes. Some of the other examples given include the Adam's apple in men and longer arms relative to height in women. While some of these things can be sexually attractive or related to sexual attractiveness in some way, certainly we don't societally put them in the same sexual category as women's breasts.

So is thick back hair

Even the researchers behind the study say, “I want to stress this finding is not final.” That should tell you something.

The sample size is small and limited to a single cultural group. Meanwhile, we’ve got plenty of anthropological evidence showing that in many societies where breasts are regularly exposed, they’re not treated as sexually arousing. So no, this study doesn’t magically override decades of cross-cultural data.

That said, the idea that breasts signal health or fertility? Sure, obviously. Just like wide hips, clear skin, or symmetrical faces. But biological relevance doesn’t automatically make something a fetish object. We don’t jerk off to white blood cell counts.

And yeah, obesity isn't typically seen as attractive because it signals potential health risks (dont cross post this on tumblr).

The study is interesting, but it doesn’t prove breasts are inherently sexual. It just adds a datapoint to a complex picture where biology and culture play roles.

I mean sure, you do you. If everyone wore gloves in a parallel timeline, you'd probably want chin scratches.

I would phrase that near-last sentiment, "...in a sexy body." instead. No one should be oggled simply for being sexy, but if they are sexualizing themselves, (like dressing up for a night club) I'd argue that can indicate a desire to be oggled. They still should not be objectified, but when someone is trying to look sexy, I bet most people would be disappointed to get zero glances.

Nudists think people who wear clothes and dont question whether their shame is vindicated are weird. I'm inclined to agree with them lol.

There’s the wonderbread guy - probably thousands of pictures of women buying wonderbread and talking on the phone about how much they want to burn down the Amazon rainforest.

Another one is this guy who’s into this deadly sunscreen stuff - like lesbians killing each other with evil sunscreen.

Both probably have spent thousands of dollars commissioning artists to draw these fetishes for them.

My weird 4chan archive has a guy where /b/ got together to draw a comic fulfilling his greatest wish - his lizard man OC getting vored, digested and shit out by a tuba.

I like squeezing them and making the claws extend and retract.

I'm not a furry but you guys rp as much as you want to. Idk