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voytek709 Voytek (They/Them) @lemmy.ca

19 Jan 07

They/Them mainly

Goofy neurodivergent teen

Voytek is a nickname, you may call me that

Pan (AKA gay as hell 🏳️‍🌈)

Posts 12
Comments 68
Why do people care about empathy so much when it’s not needed?
  • She “just has ADHD and depression”, according to her. 🙄

  • would dating my ex friend be worth it, do you think he could love me and would calm down if i said yes or am i just thinking this out of sadness?
  • You said you probably don’t like guys. Your bio says you’re a lesbian. Could you perhaps try to find girls who act the way you’re looking for and forget the other people? That man is not healthy for you, and you could just be looking for anyone out of loneliness.

    Good luck to you 🫂

  • International, a community to post about anything and connect in different languages

    This community serves to be similar to Internationale except you can post almost anything and connect with people who speak different languages.

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    what’s a pun in your language, the english translation, and do you think it makes sense in english or has an english equivalent?
  • Similarly, Swedish has

    • ”Farfar, får får får?” (Grandpa, do sheep have sheep?)
    • ”Nej, får får inte får, får får lamm”. (No, sheep don’t have sheep, sheep have lambs)
  • Is this a sign of mental illness or just asshole behavior?
  • Maybe try asking !needadvice@lemm.ee ?

    Also, not a psychologist, but it sounds like it could be both.

  • [TOMT]Subreddit where users with weird usernames would comment advice/kind stuff

    I was going to make a community like this on Lemmy, it’s like if someone had the username shitballs69 but posted actual helpful advice

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    Name for these types of people?
  • That’s fair enough

  • my version is better
  • I always thought it was “another rumour in the night” 🥲

  • Are some Lemmy instances down or is my phone broken?
  • Thanks!! It just showed a white screen, I’ll check if it works again

  • Are some Lemmy instances down or is my phone broken?

    lemmy.ca, my instance, is the only one I can load. When I try to browse other Lemmy instances, it just shows a white screen or says my browser can’t open the page.

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    If I’m mostly attracted to men, is it «wrong» to consider myself pan?
  • Well, I mean in the context of not having homophobic people interested in you or a woman having in her profile that she’s, for example, a lesbian, so other sapphic women will see it and not just wonder if she’s straight or not.

  • how old were you the first time you got drunk?
  • Same, I was in eighth grade.

  • people who drink, how long do your hangovers last?
  • I don’t drink often, and not enough to get drunk. I just wanted to say you should drink as much water as you can and eat something, even if it’s just a piece of bread.

  • If I’m mostly attracted to men, is it «wrong» to consider myself pan?
  • The only time I find it necessary is when dating someone, labels make things confusing

  • Weird guy I know

    Random post, also he is quite controversial.

    So, this guy I used to be friends with (maybe he gets some slack, I’m 18 and he’s 17) is a very far-right individual.

    He doesn’t date trans people (which is fine) but he also thinks that they don’t count as “actual” men/women and that they’re some other category, and says he can’t date them “because he’s bisexual”.

    He also heavily criticizes Democrats/non-Trump supporters and praises anyone who supports Trump, even if they’re bad people because he doesn’t believe bad people support Trump?

    My friend also says it would make sense for him to be bisexual and support Trump since he heavily prefers women and would therefore “fit in with straight people” and not understand LGBT stuff. He seems to support it as a bi dude but the way he talks about other stuff heavily outweighs his support.

    He also believes every non-white person should “go back to where they came from”, that they’re all illegal immigrants (bonus points if they’re Latino), and that people who aren’t white are secretly out to get white people.

    He even tried to tell me that my friend of Caribbean descent was bad and that he would end up killing us all and tried to persuade me to stop being his friend.

    But seriously, prefers the opposite gender or not, he is still bi, and I don’t really understand LGBT Trump supporters much.

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    Why do some people in the USA assume all immigrants are illegal and should "go back to where they came from"? Shouldn't that logic apply to all non-Native Americans?

    Not everyone thinks this, but I know an extreme right-winger who thinks this. He is also a conspiracy theorist who thinks non-white people are out to get white people so, yeah, odd.

    Not every immigrant is illegal or bad. I know a girl who didn't speak English for 3 years when her family legally immigrated, so of course she's been told this.

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    Why do some people think others are troll just because they don’t like what they have to say?

    You may not like their posts but that doesn’t automatically make them a troll. If they’re trying to get a reaction, then yes, but sometimes, these “trolls” aren’t even trolls

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