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Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

Bulgaria: what is considered a higher end price for an apartment in Sofia?

  • Thank you for the response! Honestly most of the people that bully me psychopathically either don't know me or we are colleagues and barely speak and aren't on close terms.

    Currently it's my apartment neighbours. They have devoted their life to bothering me.

    For example when I take a shower they will imitate me and run water after. My dog barks literally 1 time a day tops and they will randomly make dog barking nosies throughout the day to imitate it. Same with my cats.

    They will spend hours around my car pretending to be "taking the kids out" when really they're only there to torment me (there are 4000 other places they could be but always choose my car in specific)

    Any time I make the smallest noise like if I laugh once they will stomp right after.

    This ONE TIME I turned a vacuum on 10 mins before afternoon quiet hours ended (2-4pm, so I turned it on at 3:50pm to vacuum something that spilled quickly, cause I was in a hurry to leave with my mom) and the next morning they were sure to make loud slamming noises and wake me up just before 8am (quiet hour ends).

    See when this stuff happens once or twice you don't think much of it but when it happens ever single time you start making the connection and realizing how fucking psychotic they really are

    They even get their friends to hang out around my car cause they know it bothers me

    There are no laws against this, property manager is useless.. theres literally nothing I can do

  • It's like a shoebox you can hear everything tbh.. it is torture but they should realize it's the apartments fault and not mine. They're not quiet at all either but I don't follow their every move and blackmail them. The crazy removed is literally home all day "getting back at me" for every noise I make

  • techsupport @lemmy.world

    My building has a shitty API app for the cameras, can it be fixed?

  • The thing is idk what to do, cause they can claim all the sounds are "normal" or an accident. For example today at around 1230am I heard them screetch their chair extremely loudly and suddenly twice in a row but spaced apart by like a minute. It was most definitely not a normal chair screetching noise as usual throughout the day. Then again they made several banging noises after until about 1am (but I'm worried my phone isn't picking the noises up).

    Them again they woke me at 5am and I could tell they were trying to.

    While yesterday technically I'm not sure the exact time but it was around 8am (end of quiet hour) where they slammed the door into the frame approx 3-4 times just loudly enough to wake me but not loudly enough to prove it was on purpose

    This is all after I tried to be as quiet as possible all day.

    The police here are absolutely worthless and disgraceful

  • I tried speaking to other neighbours and as I said everyone already seems to have been turned against me and think that I am the one making the noise.

    I tried speaking to the property manager about a basic issue, not even this, and hr just interrupted me, spoke over me, argued with me over shit thats not true, dismissed me and without saying it told me he can't help me

  • I honestly don't know how I can do that. For example this morning they pushed the door against the frame like 4 times, just loudly enough to wake me. also pretty sure it was after quiet hours ended (8am) so it's technically allowed. Plus I can't prove they did it to bother me.

    I've tried turning up my tv before when I used to live here and it just made everything worse to where they woke me up in the middle of the night slamming the doors just enough.. and this was their usual cause their kids wake them so it doesn't affect them negatively

    If I leave music on they'll immediately complain and it'll be obvious I'm doing it to bother them

    They've gone as far to terrorize me psychologically by circling my property (car) outside which I can't prove because what they're doing is technically legal, but they're going around my car and between it. Now they're doing it to other cars too after I reported them so that they have plausible deniability. This doesn't affect them negatively either cause either way they are in the parking lot for at least 1 hour each day with their kids, literally walking the stroller in circles around the parking (they have no life and are too lazy to go elsewhere cause the parking lot is most convenient cause it's all smooth and they can just go in circles)

  • Asklemmy @lemmy.ml

    Is there any "not losing" with a psychopath in your apartment?

  • Idk. Like, interpersonal psychopaths don't scare me as much cause I can always just ghost them for the most part.

    My issue is with workplace ones (cause it's hard to find a good job) and also with the ones in my apartment complex. There's no effing way it can be dealt with I'm just screwed.

  • Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    How to avoid being a target of a psychopath

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    Does anyone else feel awful in big apartments

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    Is it normal to feel super uncomfortable getting help from strangers?

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    What's a good vacuum for people with pets in Europe?

    Ask Lemmy @lemmy.world

    What's a good vaccuum for people with pets in Europe?

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    Why is everything shit?

    Explain Like I'm Five @lemmy.world

    Can my apartment become moldy if I don't live in it? I don't understand the whole negative air pressure thing

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    If you could start over in any country and take any degree, what would you choose and why?