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x-vertism is a behavioural archetype that changes with mental state. Nothing is absolute. Lots of social and structural factors impact people's mental state from outside their control.

I can appreciate that what you're saying is good willed, but it feels like the equivalent of telling a depressed person to try "not being sad."

Whatever money I would spend on music streaming, I spend on Bandcamp Friday.

There's one this week people!

Great for when you need to cry, though.

Beloved is a strong word. Tolerated maybe.