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  • you always get the "fine, you?" out of the way. it's just part of the script. But people think I am Weirdly Caring if it's like someone who isn't actually expecting me to ask how they're doing back, like my therapist or something. I don't think it's a bad perception to cultivate, though

  • In order C, A, B and D. Though I don't think this is autism. This is a mix of social anxiety with a dash of lack of social skills

  • I always go for D asap which ends up being C. I don't want to have a superficial conversation with someone I may never see again. For some reason I am more commonly asked "Any plans for the weekend?" and I always just say "nope" which usually ends the conversation there. One time someone hit me with a "Any plans for the holiday?" which really threw me off because I didn't have a canned response and I said "I'm picnicking" and I just felt so awkward and embarrassed that I froze and felt like covering my face.

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