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Bands whose sound you like but lyrics you hate

I have a relationship with Jedi Mind Tricks that makes me a little uncomfortable. They sound good. I really like their sound but when you listen to their lyrics it is really awful. Lots of anti-gay, hateful and other stuff that is really not what I am about. I have settled into just listening to the music because it sounds good and ignoring the lyrics but it gets hard. I don't worry that the music is going to sway me to that viewpoint... I am not that weak willed. Really I just wonder how others deal with music they enjoy the sound of but feel uncomfortable about the meaning behind.

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  • i think there’s an important distinction to make between thinking lyrics are poor quality and strongly disagreeing with the message in the lyrics.

    i often ignore lyrics of poor quality because the music behind them is so good. luckily i don’t recall coming across messaging like you are struggling with, but i think it would anger me enough to lose any interest in the band. don’t support people like that.

  • I mean, I'm glad you can put aside the lyrics and listen to the music beneath. But I couldn't. Because I think about how those musicians are spreading the hate through the music also. Cause like, without them the singer wouldn't have any platform to spread the message.

    So, in my mind, although the drummer isn't saying any words, theyre just as hateful for giving the words a good beat to sing to.

    Not saying I judge you. Just saying I couldn't

    • This is essentially why I made this post. It continuously bugs me. I would never go to a live show or otherwise support them financially. But sometimes their sound just hits right and I feel like listening to it. I know there are those out there that will take the lyrics to heart and that churns my stomach.

  • I had the same feelings on Jedi Mind Tricks, but decided to keep listening based on this justification.

    1. my morals will never perfectly align with any band. It's obvious when the lyrics are awful & hate filled, but it's impossible to know what every band was thinking when creating any music.
    2. I don't believe in heroes. I respect a good piece of music as is. It's creators should not get a pass in any way because of that.
    3. music or a message. Creative processes differ, some artists use their music as a vehicle to promote their beliefs, while others focus on making a sound first. It's not always easy to know which came first.

    It's all subjective to me, some albums get deleted, others stay on probation, pending annual review

  • Donna Summer. I love most of her music, and many of her lyrics... until you get to the religious intonations of he later work. She was on track to be one of the biggest stars of her lifetime, but she ended up being a horrible homophobic piece of trash. Blaming her drugs and partying on others. She is thankfully dead now, so I can listen in peace and tune out how hateful she became. ♫ Once upon a time... There was, a girl... Who lived in a land... Of make believe...

    • That snippet of lyrics was sampled in some triphop thing I was listening to a while back and googling them turned up way too many songs that I didn't have patience to sift through. It's nice to have this little mystery solved!

  • There 's a Dutch band called Son Mieux that I cannot stand. They sing in English. The music is.... fine. It's well produced mass market pop music. I understand people like it. But their lyrics are so atrociously bad it ruins everything for me. It's like a middle school kid with a poor understanding of English lifted parts of well known phrases and put them together based on sound alone, like a bad Christmas gift poem. It's entirely vapid and meaningless, even compared to other pop music. And a lot of Dutch people love it because they don't listen to the lyrics anyway. I cringe every time it's on the radio.

  • Dance Gavin Dance. Oddly enough I don't mind the lyrics by Jon Mess, but a lot of the lyrics sung by Tillian and Jonny are tough to listen to.

  • Combichrist. They're obnoxious misogynistic wankers with fucked up lyrics, but they had some really fun songs to dance to.

    Meshuggah. I don't like that style of vocals and don't know what they're even singing, but I really like the rest of their sound.

    Some hymns are absolute bangers but fuck that whole christian god thing. This drunk guy was singing Glory Glory Hallelujah while walking down my street last night and it's a really catchy and sounded fun to sing.

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