How do you like the self hosted approach? I contemplate it every so often, but I’m not sure that my sysadmin abilities (and attention) are enough to keep it secure.
That’s pretty grim. I can think of some people I’ve met like this in real life, and they’re somewhere in between abused into submission, or have self esteem or other issues to the point where they can’t really live a life outside of their partner. It can be a sad and potentially dangerous situation to be in.
I hear that if you lock down your system so much that no one can access anything that’s peak security.