Seems like RustDesk is still the most trusted RD service, so I'll start with it, then I will look more into self hosting Tailscale/Netbird and maybe make the switch.
I don't really like endeavourOS, seems like that it points more towards user friendliness than performance, which is not what I'm aiming to.
I will probably install base arch, get familiar with it and then select some packages from either cachy or guarda to improve performance.
I didn't really think about your last point, in fact a big distro like arch will probably never die, while, just how we saw with arcolinux, these smaller distros with smaller development teasm can die in the future.
I understand, but less packages means it's easier to manage my system.
One of the reasons I'm leaning towards arch is because of its minimal approach, so that I can install only what I need.
That's cool, strange I didn't stumble over it when I was searching for these keys. Have you got one? Is it durable?