I'm not a huge fan of 'narcissists' usage here. We really shouldn't be trying to pit neurodivergent people against each other or demonize people with a particular condition. Bullies would have been just fine.....sorry about the minor nitpick because I agree with OP's sentiment but still...

I think that I felt that way for a while.....but really it's kind of a reflexive reaction to the discrimination that I had to acknowledge that I'd faced. But also you can't always tell if someone is neurodivergent? And even other people who are may not be accommodating of autistic traits. It's very messy....