kivihiili

@ kivihiili @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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she, her, etc. (for any one or all of us).
plural, and may use both "we" and "i". it's complicated, but "i" is most often by the girl amongst us who does a lot of the feeling emotions and other stuff, as she is most often "at front".
more about that

that girl (we will call her tani) runs much of the show, and does a lot of the feeling and perception, but a lot less thinking. while most thoughts posted are contributed to by multiple of us, tani's thoughts in particular are again, more emotional. examples: "we love the pretty views" and "i wanna snuggle our plushies so badly". the former could be shared across many of us, but for the latter, many of us do not do that direct decision making to begin with; really only tani does.
still, others of us may use "i" too!
all pictures photographed by us and published here are under the CC0 1.0 public domain dedication unless otherwise noted

1d ago

I wore a skirt today!
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kivihiili @lemmy.blahaj.zone 1d ago
it is so great to meet with other folk, you go girl!!!
I have slightly curly hair and have no idea what to do with it beyond shampoo and conditioner every 2-3 days
our routine often once or twice a week to wash the scalp and hair with conditioner, rinse that out, and then put more conditioner in to act as, well, conditioner! it seems to work well, every couple months or so we may use a shampoo.
we have used some information from this document: https://docs.google.com/document/u/0/d/1Q6Dj9WAZxlfBhJSyS5on2rw3-if5cOV3oV-dQ3B0AHA/mobilebasic (this link shouldn't pester you for javascript). we disagree with a lot of the wording, but nonetheless it has been useful.
really the main thing with our curly hair is to never brush or comb it when it is dry, like ever. it will turn into a frizzy mess. wetting it does go a long way, but even then we really only comb it with our fingers. the only thing we use an actual comb for is our bangs, and they're so short they might as well be considered straight. to get knots and stuff out, it is easiest (for us) in the shower with some conditioner in.
curly hair can be tricky, but you'll get the hang of it, so forth for the other stuff too.
in short:
you probably don't wanna shampoo that often
avoid brushes and combs unless your hair is wet and soaked with conditioner
best wishes and enjoy yourself <3

1d ago

why does almost nobody live here?

we just went to that area yesterday!! its very rocky and lots of cliffs on the coast, and super super hilly and forested in the interior.

many absolutely do live there, and those municipalities marked on your map there are reasonably populated. but the terrain is not super great for building large stuff, and they really do not like deforestation either. it is also farther away from freeway I-5, where most stuff on the west coast is freighted by truck, and is more expensive, at least from our experiences.

the sunset on the coast is SO pretty though :)