Congrats on quitting! Did it myself in '97. Its hard to kick.
There are times I'm like your sister. I swing back and forth. But when something grabs you, its worth getting the whole album and putting some intention into your listening. Especially if the artist/producer has put the effort into the album. I'm glad to see some artists going back to creating albums as a whole.
Floyd was my first re-discovery in my twenties when I purchased my first good stereo.
Tyler is in my backlog. I need to get around to checking them out. I agree about Kendricks music. I am an old rock head so I would usually just listen to hip hop on spotify or youtube because I always saw it as stripped down. Not layered like older rock. I put on TPAB one day at work with my dac and headphones. I kept stopping going "wait what?"
What song sounded different, or you heard something new when you played it on a better stereo, DAC, headphones?
I remember in my twenties discovering things in old music when I purchased my first good stereo. I have recently started to make new discoveries again with Hi-Res audio files and improving dacs with better headphones.