Proud trans girl and HunterXHunter fan. I'm not new to Lemmy, backed the wrong instance when I first Joined Lemmy in the Reddit migration.
I'm sure that that person who did it to me is either a fascist or both. There's no way they could just be ignorant and not a fash with how much of an ass they were to me.
What kind of dumbasses think we pretend to be trans??
I just recently had some awful DM harassment from a transphobic idiot who told me that I was pretending to be trans. It was dealt with but I'm still left wondering. Why do some people believe that we would pretend to be trans? What do they think someone would gain by "pretending" to be trans. It just seems so stupid because I've dealt with so much oppression and people invalidating me my whole life, and yet they still think I'm pretending to be trans for some some reason...? Why? What the fuck does someone gain from pretending to be trans? This makes no fucking sense whatsoever.
Sorry for this rant, I really needed to get this off my chest.
Good, transphobes suck and they're not really solving any problems by being pieces of shit to us trans women. You know that trans are disproportionately more likely to be sexually and physically assaulted despite what transphobes would tell you about us being groomers and rapists 🙄
Some days the thing that ultimately stops me is running out of hot water.
It was but I didn't much like being naked and seeing my naked body back then, gave dysphoria :(
I do take slightly longer to wash my hair since it's long now, but that's not the real reason I spend much longer in the shower. The real reason is that it's warm and relaxing in there.
“They’re happier in general, like they were literally skipping with joy the other day”
I personally relate to this so much. I'm literally so much happier since I transitioned. Life just feels happier and actually worth living for a change.