The ol' Uno Reverse

What a woman.
Reminds me of the Paris woman who testified to her abuser. Was in tabloids. Called that monster out.
The strength it takes is awe inspiring.
- Gisèle Pélicot ?
  
  Thank you.
- I really loved how she was recognised pretty unanimously as the badass that she is. Society has a lot of deeply rooted problematic beliefs around sexual assault, but Gisèle Pélicot's bravery was a definite step towards unravelling those icky attitudes.
  
  "The shame needs to switch sides."

She had more balls than him
- oh so you've seen the pics

This is someone who understands strategy. Quick! Promote them to a relevant position in their preferred industry!

So... what did you say that link was?

- The youths don’t even know how to guard against edging.

Why not release just his threats?
- In that situation you're still admitting the threats have power over you; by releasing the photos yourself, you both out the person as fucking scum and demonstrate that their threat was completely impotent, delivering a one-two punch to the ego.
  
  I'm sure that your future employer will care a lot about the difference while running the most progressive and sex positive background check ever.
- Still doesn’t stop them being used against you. If they’re published by “choice” I think that’s easier on the soul, if still painful.
- I don't get it, either. It's like being threatened to get shot and releasing the threat and shooting yourself.
  
  That analogy only works if your nudes being out there hurts or at least bothers you. Maybe she doesn't care or planned to do it herself someday?
  You take away all the power if you follow through with releasing them yourself.

How do you attack future girlfriends? I would love to know who my future girlfriends are going to be I need this technology.
- You can see who he has been liking and viewing on social media. That would be my best guess.

Fumbled the bag. Life doesn't give you many options to sue the fuck outta someone and take em for all they're worth

Playa Hater!

Badass

This is the way. Take your bodily autonomy back ladies. They can't hurt you as much if you make your vulnerabilities into a weapon

and then everyone clapped
- Nothing ever happens.
  
  A weird way to say you believe everything on the internet.

Link or it didn't happen
- I believe this it, honestly
  
  I believe in you pug Jesus.
  
  What’s wrong with people? He doubled down on his sex crime???
  
  Yeah, what a sad story, he was never gonna let her down but he runn around and desert her. But she really did play a power move, just gonna make him cry and gonna say goodbye
- the post is from 2015 so good luck to find it
  here is the post on the internet archive as a starting point: https://web.archive.org/web/20170624194401/http://rarestandfairest.tumblr.com/post/115047018790/i-had-an-ex-boyfriend-threaten-to-publish-my-nudes
  
  Very sad: https://web.archive.org/web/20170624194423/http://rarestandfairest.tumblr.com/
- https://youtu.be/D17KwWDpoPU
- Classy

To be clear, both of these things are sex crimes, so don’t draw any major lessons from either side, aside from “don’t fuck with people.”
- ... publishing your own nudes is a sex crime?
  
  Every morning I human traffic myself to work.
  
  To an audience that isn’t interested in seeing them, yeah. They require consent, otherwise it’s a sex crime not dissimilar to flashing. I can’t remember the specific term. Non-consensual something or other.
  Edit: I still can’t remember but the word “brandishing” keeps hopping to the forefront of my mind, and brandishing tits sounds hilarious
  
  No but adding unsubstantiated comments about how your ex wanted to post revenge porn about you probably is.
  Edit: you can stop the down voting, I didn't pick up the part where she screenshotted his threats. Either way, be careful with that sort of vigilante justice as you might be right but still break the law.
- No, the lesson is not to be filth and blackmail your partner(s).
  I sincerely doubt it’s a crime to upload your own nudes to OnlyFans and then tell your abusive ex-partner’s family, “hey, this is a link to the nude pictures your child threatened to post online if I broke up with them”. My grandma has accidentally shared worse things with me than that
- I read your link below and do not understand what you mean by sex crime for sharing your own nude images (with adults). The link mentions a law for your own nude images being shared without consent, but that and everything else just guides a path to sue in civil court.