2mo ago

How are your meltdowns like?

I have not been professionally diagnosed as autistic, though I am awaiting the diagnostic process. I am wondering a bit about (what I think are) my autistic meltdowns, as they are almost the same as (what I think are) my panic attacks. People often call them panic attacks as well, also with no panic involved. In both cases I am shaking, hyperventilating, sweating more and some other things. As far as I remember my latest panic attack, I don't think I was really craving having as few stimuli as possible and wasn't crying either (both usually being the case with the autistic meltdowns).

So: how are your meltdowns like? How are they different from panic attacks for you?

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I just internalize my meltdowns for the most part.
Is it healthy? No, but it was worked for me this far.

Difficulty speaking, severe tension running through my shoulders, neck, and jaw. Fist clenching. A lot of rocking with some spastic shaking. Very similar to what you've described, save for the sweating.
Sometimes, I'm actually able to dissociate myself from them, so I can sit there and mentally call play-by-play while my body remains locked up and over-stimulated. That's a bit of a wild ride.

I get super warm and can't take the sensory stuff anymore. I try to run away, and end up crying for some reason. Sometimes I hit myself or try to pull something apart.

I basically just become mute and summon an uber to go home. In my head, the windows XP shutdown sound plays.

Loud screaming and crying. Fist pounding on the table. Lots more crying.
- Wow, I am unable to cry so I'm impressed when someone does it "easily", does crying help to "let it out"?
  
  Oh I don't do it easily. That's just when I have my big meltdowns. The small ones I can usually control until I am alone and can scream at the top of my lungs.
- Honestly I wish I could do that. I struggle to show any emotion and when I have a melt down my face has a slight frown. Usually no one else knows there is a problem so it looks super weird in a social setting. I just push though and try to mask harder.

I feel like there is electricity on my skin. I have visuals of flashing in my mind's eye like lots of christmas lights. My hearing "throbs". My muscles tense and I clench my fists. Everything becomes super irritating. Sometimes I hit myself and other times I completely dissociate and can't move, staring into nothing. I often have a hard time responding to people. If I am in public I need to escape immediately. Sometimes I run away. Sometimes I start walking until I am exhausted.

I too am in the process of getting a diagnosis. As for my meltdowns, I have two phases: Muting myself, or cussing everyone out loud, while I try to internalize the feeling of crying.

How old are you?

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