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Hi lemmy.world/c/autism,

We’re autistic and don’t believe in hierarchies. Here’s a 22-minute infodump on it: https://youtu.be/cuflpEQlFQk

This is your community, so we want this place to be your internet home, where you can be free to be your autistic true selves: share your interesting special interests, have meltdowns, be direct, expect others to be direct back, seek support for supposedly simple matters, make mistakes and receive compassionate feedback, be silly, and most importantly, feel included.

As moderators, we need your help. What do you want from the moderation team of /c/autism? Tell us freely. Don’t worry about upsetting us, saying the “wrong” thing, being “too much”, or whatever other unfair lessons we have been taught by society for being us. It’s okay. We get it. Talk to us so we can make this the best autism community we can make!

Some tips

Go to your favorite Lemmy communities, kbin magazines, subreddits, online forums, etc., see what you like about them, and then tell us to see if we can implement that here. Find what’s missing elsewhere that we could include here. Have discussions on our chat to brainstorm. Tell us more tips so we can add them to this list. Yours truly, The moderation team

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  • I like having either tags or posts that start with the brackets (eg: [venting]) so you know what the poster expects in terms of responses. Are they looking for help or just venting? Is it a meme or actual discussion around a piece of media? It just sets some clear expectations at the start so the threads can be what’s most helpful or productive / fun

  • r/autism sub is very ableist towards high support needs people, maybe don't do that.

    • We definitely do not want to be ableist towards high support needs people. Any recommendations on how to prevent that?

  • Sorry to poke my head in here, but if you could point me in the direction on how to communicate better with my 16yo son who is “high functioning?” On the spectrum? He’s into “gangsta lifestyle?” But anyways there’s too much to unpack. I support him and love him, and I think he knows it but I’d like to be able to help him more. All the ? Marks are because I’m not sure of the terms or if they offend, I’m just trying to ask for help. Thank you

    • It might be more helpful to make an original post to get more eyes on it. Let us know if you would like help on how to create a new post!

    • Restrict promotions to a megathread or restrict them overall.
    • If a resources page is made for regional services, specify if it is US-exclusive and prioritise the inclusion of non-US services.
    • Enforce moderation against harassment towards a person using different terminology to refer to themselves (e.g. an autistic person refers to themselves as "a person with autism").
    • Ensure the Matrix space is moderated as well as the Lemmy community.
    • [1] Advertisments are against our rules 2 and 4

      [2] We have a Helpful resources post that is curated by our other moderator BackOnMyBS

      [3] Im not sure what you mean here please elaborate

      [4] The Matrix space is checked by me every day

      • [2] We have a Helpful resources post that is curated by our other moderator BackOnMyBS

        I have taken a look at that and most of the resources are not location-specific except for the inclusion of the Asperger/Autism Network (AANE), which only provides services to the United States. This should be clearly stated as this is a global community and many people aren't from the United States. Most online communities assume and default to an audience exclusive to the United States (referred to as US-centrism, US-defaultism or Americentrism).

        [3] Im not sure what you mean here please elaborate

        I elaborated on it in a recent post which you have commented on but to summarise my point, people should be able to use the terminology they want to refer to themselves without people trying to "correct" their language or harass them. I find that this behaviour goes under the radar because it is done with good intentions but I think it is harmful to the community.

        [4] The Matrix space is checked by me every day

        I'll message you about this one.

  • test comment please ignore

  • r and c chile(@feddit.cl) has a weekly random megathread that is trully one of the best places on the internet in my opinion.

    Can we have a weekly random megathread as well?

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