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  • We went through the same thing, I'm so sorry. Keep doing what you're doing, they very much live at the moment, and you're her favourite things. The pain is raw, love it's OK.

    Dogs are the definition of the flame that burns brightest, and I know you made every day amazing for her.

  • I'm so sorry.

    Words are at their most limiting in times like these. Nothing we say does much to fill the hole that losing such a close and loving friend leaves behind. All I know to suggest is trying to focus on the positive memories instead of the terrible loss, but sometimes that isn't enough.

    Whether you need an ear to listen or a shoulder to cry on, a place to let go of despair or just a friend to keep your mind busy, we are here for you. Feel free to dm me if you are struggling with things.

    Lean on the strength your best friend has undoubtedly shown in the face of the unknown, and find solace in knowing you are giving them your all in return even when it's the most difficult. Love is powerful.

  • I hope things go well for you and yours. She had a happy, loving life. This kind of hit home for me because my dog looks fairly similar and is getting up there in years for his size. I dread the day. May your beautiful girl RIP.

  • This is one of the saddest things to go through- I'm sorry for your loss. Just went through the same a couple weeks ago, and I gotta say, being proactive about the grieving process was a huge help. Everyone grieves differently, but I would recommend prioritizing the process- set aside time for yourself and your feelings every day.

    These might help: https://www.therapistaid.com/therapy-worksheets/grief/adults

    One of best things my partner and I did was make bracelets out of beads that matched the fur and eye colors of our late cat, and it made it feel like her essence was still around with us. Highly recommend.

    Feel free to PM me

  • Fam, I feel this. In the last year I had to put down both of my old ladies ... You're doing what's best for her. Never forget that. Take the time you need to mourn, but know you did the best you could.

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