Wearing collars in public

I dont wear my playcollar in public, its leather with tiny spikes and would be too obvious for me.

But i do have a collection of collarlike necklaces, who go pretty with my day-to-day outfits and are way more subtle. I dont wear them all the time just when im in need of some extra support.

I would like to have an eternity collar or something like that with some sparkly shiny little stones.

Yes, when I'm out with my partner I have a preference to wear my collar.

I've never had anyone comment about it or actively noticed a second glance scenario.

I did have a staff member in hotel reception call me by my pet name instead of my actual name when they looked at it once....

That said wearing it more often than not over the past year has incurred a fair amount of wear and tear.

I recently picked up a couple of cute chokers to wear out and about instead though for casual use, with the collar explicitly for kinky events only.

Less risk to my collar, and still have the same secure feeling of the binding around my neck.