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at what point in life it's too late to go back to school?

cross-posted from: https://linux.community/post/4052877

don't give me the it's never too late bs. Life happens, people have jobs, debts and rent to pay.

Going back to school when you're employed means debt, earning way less or nothing during your bachelor or master, stress, opportunities you're not aware of because you're simply not at your workplace anymore, unpaid overtime during those 2 to 3 years... the money you lose is more than what the bachelor / accreditation costs.

When does it start being a stupid idea? Is it when you're 30? 40? 50?

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  • When the pros no longer outweigh the cons.

    I work in a field that offers full tuition reimbursement commonly, so money isn't a barrier. No con there.

    I don't have kids, so that greatly alleviates time capacity. So some con there but not as much as a parent of young kid(s) would face.

    I have progressed far enough in my career and am on a path where another degree won't really help me reach my career goals, so no significant pro there.

    Personal curiosity and ego do motivate me slightly. Even if I never use it at work, I would be keen to have work pay for another degree that I have personal interest in. I also like having advanced degrees solely for the accomplishment. So minor pros there.

    In summary, not too late for me but easy to see that's not the case for everyone else.

  • Deathbed, you could probably get a certificate or two in hospice

  • I've noticed that at 50 it's harder to absorb data heavy stuff. Memorization isn't what it used to be. Doesn't make anything impossible, but...

  • I'm siding with a lot of the other commenters on here, there's more ways to learn stuff than going back to school; even cheap or in some cases free classes both online and in person are a thing for instance.

    The one exception to that claim is anything that's regulated in some way/needs a license, eg. driving a semi (need a CDL for that), going into the HVAC business (need a license to handle refrigerants), etc, those you need to go to school for, but things which aren't subject to government regulations on some level can be learned with a free or cheap course.

  • My mom was a stay at home parent for all of my life. In her early 50s, she ended up going to college in order to become a nurse. Been over 10 years now and she's still a nurse.

    I would say it's only ever really too late if you're beyond working age or nearly there. Because at that point you're no longer working toward a career.

    The real issue is whether or not you have finances and a support system to get you there.

    In my mom's case, she had a husband who already was the only breadwinner anyway, so it didn't cause much of a financial impact per se. My mom ended up taking out student loans like everyone else, of course, but student loans are seen much more favorably than credit card debt.

    I have a friend who is going back to college right now in order to get a better job. In their scenario, their parent let them move back in while they get an education.

    I ended up eventually going to an intensive grad school where many of us had to move and we also did not have time to work during the program. There, I met plenty of people who already married, already had careers, etc...and yet they still managed to survive and get through the program just fine. (Again, remember we all took out loans lol.)

    Then you hear online about med students having children while going through med school and residency. Sounds like hell, but they manage to do it.

    But also, the career you seek should be worth it. Don't go back to school to do one of those dumb "ingegrative studies" degree or whichever one they call it when you couldn't pick a major lmao. Won't net you anything.

    Similarly, it wouldn't make sense someone in their 50s to attempt to go to med school. The return on investment is just not there for the amount of effort and loan debt if you consider how many working years you have left. Yet, as I said, it was worth it for my mom to become a nurse because she never worked before and it allowed her to be able to earn a living wage sooner and with less debt. The return on investment for her was greater.

    Point is, I don't think it's a matter of "too late", but rather a matter of...

    1. Life circumstances
    2. The specific career you are working towards
  • It depends.

    If you're old and wealthy, doing it for the education, not for the income, then it's never too late. If you're not, then spreadsheet it. Calculate expected working life and expected income for current career trajectory, and compare with expected working life after education and expected income for new career minus full cost of further education including lost income while studying.

    Or if your current works options suck, pursue further education so you can do something that doesn't suck as long as it won't leave you much worse off by retirement.

    The calculations will be different for every person.

    Remember any calculations and expectations will change over time, especially with the advent of AI. So do the calculations, then follow your heart. There's no guarantees.

  • Depends on why you're going TBH. If you just want to learn things before you die, it's literally never too late.

    If you're looking for a purely financial payout though, there is a lot of math and it's going to be hyper specific to your situation. First, you need to consider the total cost of going back. Not just books and tuition but lost income if you're not working full time as you go to school. If you're still working during school, don't forget to factor in the free time that you're burning and added costs (both social and financial ) to being busy all of the time. Want to fix your car yourself and save a few bucks, hope it can wait until spring break.

    Next, you have to compare that to the amount of money you personally would likely make above your current trajectory. Don't forget to factor in your chances of actually getting that job in your field. I have a friend with an English degree who sells insurance for a company that would absolutely have hired them with an associates or maybe even just a HS diploma. A co-worker of mine has a bachelor's and makes the exact money as I do with my associates.

    I don't mean to sound down on college. My wife is a college professor and I honestly believe that for most people, a four year degree is a huge benefit in their career and personal life. Personally, I think the fact that we've turned the college experience into purely financial decision for most of the coming generations is a scathing indictment of our society. That being said, there are a lot of cases where it doesn't pay off financially.

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