What are some common things people buy that you would never buy?
What are some common things people buy that you would never buy?
What are some common things people buy that you would never buy?
Lottery tickets.
They’re basically just a tax on the dumb. But man the slogans — all you need is a dollar and a dream, you gotta be in it to win it, etc. — sheer marketing genius.
Its not about the odds. Youre temporarily renting hope in a hopeless world.
I call it the stupid tax. I pay it knowing I won't win but it would be nice to get some fuck you money.
I don't mind spending 10 a month to maybe pay off my house years early.
The lottery people aren't looking for one person to buy all the tickets.
If you are buying 10 a month and a significant amount of people think like you then they are going to make bank on that.
If you win I expect a "Fuck You" reply and a picture of a ridiculous amount of cash
I will buy one but that is it. It enhances the fantasy when there is a non zero chance something could happen even if ridiculously unlikely. That being said all the big, dreamworthy jackpots are no longer a dollar and much like fast food that has become to rich for my blood.
I buy one maybe a few times per year. Its also a very good gift to someone. You get a bit of excitement together and there is always that tiny chance of winning.
That tax goes both ways.
There are moments where the potential payout for a ticket is greater than the value of the ticket.
In that mathematical moment, buy exactly one ticket.
There are moments where the potential payout for a ticket is greater than the value of the ticket.
Has this ever happened in recent history?
In that mathematical moment, buy exactly one ticket.
I'd say buy as many as you can within the amount of money you're ready to waste. Same as with investing, pretty much.
I'll buy them as "gag gifts" but not for myself.
Apple anything
You must buy $1600 iphone to support failing US economy.
Please don't look at all the alternatives that are 3 years ahead in tech and 1/3rd of the cost.
Ahhhh but those devices don't have 'the ecosystem'. You know, that bloated software that locks you into apple everything by making a handful of tasks marginally more convenient for the tech layperson.
Yes, buy a secondhand google pixel, it's better for privacy/security etc with grapheneOS installed. But if you like apple hardware, nothing wrong with a secondhand iphone
Streaming subscriptions. I swear the average nowadays seems to be like 4 per person because ppl don't know how to torrent anymore
ppl don't know how to torrent anymore
I'll admit I was guilty of this until a few years ago, when I started learning the proper, safer ways.
Any advice? I’d love to stop paying for streaming services
English speakers (and in some cases even other language speakers) can watch pretty much anything nowadays through free streaming sites. Been binging myflixer for over a year.
Adding to this, anything where I'd be paying a publisher middleman. Avoid whenever possible, pay directly if you're in a position to support the creator/s of smaller projects.
This also applies to other things, like food ordering and travel accommodation. Some places offer a significant discount if you go directly to them - both of you get a bigger cut.
✨alternative✨ streaming services are moral.
My country has a huge piracy tradition, we have counterfeit of everything and no one gives a fuck. I have this satellite decoder that let me watch any satellite-broadcasted channel in the world, and the guys who made those are so awesome that they also offer a streaming service they upload everything from all major streaming services, and it's completely free, no subscription, you just buy their device and you have access to their private streaming
Yo ho
Thanks to Technology Connections - Dishwasher/Laundry pods. Soap with pretty colors, and probably more soap than you need per load. I've swapped to powder and literally cannot tell a difference at all, and instead of 8 dollars for 10 loads I now am getting an entire box with like, 40 loads for $8.
And if you want something convenient for laundry they have the laundry sheets that don't release plastic into your water so that's nice.
But personally if I want a known amount each time for each load I just use a scoop.
Is liquid detergent still a bad deal? I have no qualms against using powder instead, but my family always stuck to using bulk laundry detergent liquid (I forget the unit size of the 100 load bottle exactly), and I thought that was a good deal.
I'd say it's better, but not great. Environmentally it still comes with a giant plastic jug that needs to be disposed of, and we all know how plastic recycling is. On your wallet, if you think bout it, you're not just paying for the soap, but the water and the weight/shipping of that water to get to your home from the factories.
Powder is really the same thing, but you have water at home to mix it with, that happens in your washing machine. So, naturally it is going to be cheaper.
When I swapped to powder it was because I could buy a jug of All free and clear (cheapest brand for hypoallergenic that I could find) for $12. I don’t recall how many loads it did, but I could get the powder online, which was at least the same number of loads but probably way more, same brand same fragrance free formula, for $4.75. They don’t carry the powder in most stores around me, I assume because it’s so much cheaper nobody would buy the overpriced liquid. Same with cheap dish powder; just not available.
I looked into it after watching the video and here dishwasher powder is just a bad deal. More expensive than the tabs. Maybe you break even if you end up using less per wash but no bargain. Tabs are also only 6 cents each so maybe not the best place to look for savings.
I don't know where you get yours, but I get 24 loads in a box of powder for $6. https://www.kroger.com/p/kroger-dishwasher-detergent-powder-lemon-scent/0001111080564
I bought a massive box of dishwashing powder a bit over a year ago and I'm maybe halfway through it, it's like magic. Thank you technology connections!
K-Cups. They might save you a grand total of a minute over loose grounds and a disposable paper filter, but they're more costly per cup and create more waste.
I use the k cups and brewer with a reusable washable pod. You put little paper filters in them.
Those aren't bad but the container is too small for my liking. Keurig brewers are a pain to clean too.
At that point you're already putting in more work than a standard drop coffee maker would take! You literally put a filter in, pour grounds in and hit brew.
Optionally you can get a reusable filter and rinse it after each pot of coffee
They're great for single people who want 1 cup before leaving for work though.
Aeropress does this for me, and way better quality. Less waste too
You can do the same with a manual coffee brewer though- just use less coffee and water
Aeropress
Just to illustrate for anyone reading this that brewing coffee can be very easy and quick: I use one of these to very easily brew exactly one cup of coffee every morning in about 2-3 minutes - https://kalitausa.com/products/kalita-style-102-ceramic-coffee-dripper-white (mine is in the beautiful brown color, but I linked the white one because it's much cheaper and has many more reviews)
It says 2-4 cups but I think it's really only for 1-2 cups. It takes #2 filters that you can find at any grocery store. If you want to be even more environment-friendly, you can buy reusable cloth #2 filters online.
Procedure:
When I first decided that I wanted to start drinking coffee I way overthought it, spending all kinds of time and energy researching all kinds of different brewing methods, grinders, etc. It's easy to get lost in the wilderness when it comes to coffee. But I ended up choosing the easiest option available and have been happy with it for years. Hot, fresh, easy, just about any variety and strength of coffee, and no added microplastics from sending boiling water through plastics.
I just wait until I am at work, it's much simpler because the coffee at work is free and I just have to press a button and wait for the cup to be full.
Not hard to find single cup brewers for loose grounds (I own one) and they're cheaper because they don't have to work with Keurig for licensing and compatibility.
Agreed on all points, but especially #1. Fuck Nestle. Every time I buy a new product at the grocery store, I check to make sure they're not made by Nestle or a subsidiarity of Nestle.
I'd also like to adhere to the feeling: Fuck Nestle. Nothing more to add.
Streaming services subscription.
Labubus
A brand new car.
Buy used, let someone else take the depreciation hit.
With how complex (and unrepairable) modern cars are, in a few years the used car prices will probably shoot up because of flailing supply.
Yeah, my car is 18 years old, has almost 300k miles on it, and because it's desirable and not made anymore, it's still worth about half what I paid for it 14 years ago.
Pre-built computers. I’ve just been building PCs for so long I can’t imagine buying something that meet my specifications within a reasonable budget. And it’s fun.
I built my own because I wanted a gaming computer with a blu-ray drive. That was the only way. I also added a floppy drive for shits and giggles.
I have never tried building a PC myself but I have gotten into reviving old ones. I haven't bought a computer in over a decade. I just inherit people's old ones and bring them back to life with linux, maybe replace a dead PSU or something. I'm new to hardware stuff. I really wish I knew a way to get these computers into the hands of people who can't afford to buy one and don't know how to do this themselves.
Wouldn't a pre-built secondhand pc be cheaper, if your just starting out?
Pretty unlikely to find a second hand system with the highish specs I’d want.
But if you mean if someone just needed a computer, then yes used would be much cheaper given how quickly things advance.
I went this route. I don't need something powerful to scroll Lemmy and watch downloaded TV/movies.
Made sure it had two display port outputs for dual monitors. Added another 16GB of RAM because why not. It is way more than I need. Probably could have gotten away with used micro PC.
I also have a NAS and micro PC "server."
New monitors: Maybe my eyes suck, but my set of two 21-inch LCD monitors from 2005 is still going strong
Your eyes don't suck. You just want to abuse them for some reason. Modern display tech is way easier on your eyes.
How so? I'd expect two monitors showing the same thing at the same brightness would be physiologically identical.
I got a OLED monitor and it gives me more eye strain then my old monitor. I've tried software and hardware setting and it still persists. Flux, dark mode, high contrast settings, brightness settings. Tried it all, unless there is something I missed.
I use it sparingly now while playing FPS games (picture is amazing by the way, wish my eyes weren't like this)
My eyes would bleed at the sight of my laptop's 1366x768 TN panel if I got used to anything better! Those are the "good" monitors haha.
A 144hz monitor has been the biggest upgrade to my computer since switching from an HDD to a SSD. It's that big of a difference.
Yeah, cant go back from that. I have one myself, 30 inch. Everything looks super crisp and smooth on it.
I bought a 144hz 4K 32" monitor a few years ago, it wasn't cheap (800€) but I don't regret buying it, everything just looks better on it than it ever did on the previous monitor.
I was with you up until aliexpress.
There's definitely junk on there, but if you look for high purchase volume plus good ratings you'll get plenty of high quality stuff (minus the middle-man markup).
Am wondering, how do you complete a transaction on Aliexpress? On Librewolf and Firefox, something always goes wrong for me at some point, usually a bogus security check failing or buttons mysteriously ceasing to work.
Am I the only one that would never change a car? Like you buy one, shouldn't you keep it for 60 years? Why should anyone want to change a car? I had to change my car once because I'm Canadian so it rusted. It was awful.
Yeah, my 1st car died a rust death due to its winters in Syracuse (basically a Canadian climate). I'm 40 y/o and my 2nd car is still going strong (much to my wife's dismay)
My last car was 35 years old when I ditched it, the underside was rusted to a point of no longer being safe. Plus the exhaust kept falling off.
my problem is I can't even find a car to replace my old one. been trying, but when 2012-2014 is the newest model they make of what I want... hard to find for a reasonable price
I just want a small wagon
I might end up looking at newer stuff, but.. how tf am I going to avoid shitty touchscreens, spyware, LED headlights, and all that garbage?
As a fan of sedans and hatchbacks...car shopping is very interesting right now
I wouldn't be surprised if the Slate Truck/SUV ends up being just marketing hype, but I'm keeping my eye on it since they promise a minimalist EV where you plug in the smarts in the form of your own smartphone. Otherwise, it's just a dumb EV, which is how I'd keep it.
I might end up looking at newer stuff, but… how tf am I going to avoid shitty touchscreens, spyware, LED headlights, and all that garbage?
And going to get harder to avoid a lot of that stuff once enough of them eventually get into the much cheaper levels of the used market. Though by then (and even currently in the higher priced used levels) most of the stuff will no longer even be supported to use (even if you for some reason did find a need to use them and be okay paying).
I got a 2015 Rogue SV that stuff like nav or whatever other stuff doesn't even have access to the apps from Nissan to set them up. And was like one or two years behind Android Auto or even Apple's stuff. So can't just have the main screen just cast my phone's maps. Really only irritates me when I need to go into settings and see stuff for features I can't use if I wanted to do so. But the backup camera and phone pairing over blutooth for calls and music works, so that is nice to have and useful daily.
I am torn on replacing the head-unit like I did with my much older cars in the past. But those were so much more easy and "normal" to replace. I mostly worry that since it is much more integrated, that beyond just not flowing with the design, that there would be more problematic issues caused with the electrics (especially after seeing how much just replacing headlights with LEDs messed up a lot of cars when they were not a standard part) and the main computer.
Had really randomly bad issues with my last car's computer towards the last four or five years that I never had with much older cars before. But is also possible that aside from my much more abusive driving while being younger, that I just hadn't had something with any computer element (just the main one as it wasn't anything built-in with lots of features.
This guy frugals.
To this day, I've never been tempted to buy a nice display, I'm right there with you. Like, I go to electronics stores for whatever and am dazzled by the bright colours on the modern ones, but not enough to need it when I'm posting on Lemmy, let alone pay an arm and a leg for it.
A car. Gas/petrol for a car. A parking spot for a car. Car insurance. A driver's license. Winter tires for cars. Anything car related.
It's so ridiculous to pay for a mobile living room that needs to be parked everywhere people go with it.
Sadly, many cities are designed around cars where owning one has become more or less a necessity.
Yeah. I moved into a city and region with enough transit for my needs but my family still lives in a place where there hasn't been a coach or trains in 30 years. There were before but not anymore. And going to other regions or cities without a car is also becoming more and more difficult, if not impossible.
Unfortunately my province and country only care about cars. I really don't want to drive but I fear that I won't have any other choice at some point in the future because my other options are actively deteriorating.
I just moved back to a city with decent enough transit and dumped my car and god I'm so much happier. I hate driving and car ownership with a fiery passion.
For me the car meant i felt like a grown up with tons of freedom. I can go anywhere, see anything.
I used to feel like you until i got one. But now, no way im ever living without one again. Its a life upgrade you cant go back from.
And people actually use that as an insult. "You're not an adult until you own a car". Which is a sad way of seeing millions of people that have been living without a car for their whole life.
And the freedom feeling depends mostly if you live in a region that is offering you ways not to be car dependent. Where I live, we have a very decent network of bike paths in the city but also going into the countryside and traversing the province. I live on the island of an archipelago and can pull my inflatable kayak with my bike trailer, explore the islands around, access nature nearby. I can also go camping and hiking and into the wilderness 200 km away by using this cycling network. I often go visit my parents and family 140-170 km away by cycling there. I could have start to drive and bought a car 25 years ago but I moved somewhere I wouldn't need one, and my bike represents freedom. I'm free from having to pay big oil to fill a tank to go anywhere. I'm free from monthly parking fees. I'm free from paying the plates and the insurance.
Over the years, what I learned about cars don't make me see them as freedom. I see them as a way to keep people perpetually paying for gas, sending billions to big oil. I see them as an endless sea and stream of pollution. They pollute the air and the sound. They are bad for mental and physical health. They take an ungodly amount of space. They kill about a million people every year. On the planet, every 30 seconds someone is killed in a car related "accident". Every year, two billion animals (yes, billions) are killed by cars.
Going to see my nephew for his birthday in the suburbs where my sister lives is comical. Twelve people invited to go park their cars around a house that only has space for the cars of the occupants. You have to find parking everywhere you go for this thing, then whine that there's no parking anywhere. Going to a funereal is also depressing, but even more so because you can see the traffic and congestion created by someone that died.
Cars are a horrible for humanity. They're like a drug that everyone tells you to try. You'll see. They're so useful. Of course you can't go back.
So I guess never by a car so you can live without one.
You need a car to feel grown up?
Moving to a car centric city has been significant downgrade for me. I'd much rather walk or cycle than be stuck using a car.
I already had my car when I moved to this city and now I feel attached to it, so I don't want to get rid of it. If I didn't already have it I wouldn't buy a new one now though.
It is pretty useful at times though, even if I do most things with my bike, my car has a big cargo area so I can easily transport a fridge, dishwasher, etc.
I don’t know if I could do a new car.
5 speed manual transmission, roll up windows, knobs for climate and radio, the key goes in the ignition. I need to keep this car running forever because i despise most new features ìn modern cars. Soon enough the fucking steering wheel is going to be touch screen.
Hook up an Xbox/PlayStation controller using Bluetooth XD
I feel this. My car has a super straightforward drivetrain (2003 Miata) and pretty simple electronics that I can follow and understand.
Looking under the hood of modern cars, half the time it’s so enclosed, you just see plastic and once you get past that, it’s an intertwined rats nest of complicated components.
On top of that, modern interiors are just loaded with features I don’t need. Give me driving, climate and radio controls. I don’t need anything more.
Don’t even get me started on all the assist features. I’m driving. I’ll handle the wheel, thanks.
After building my first pc I will never buy a pre built again. I might never buy a pc again (pc of thesius!)
At some point if you decide you want a significantly newer or more powerful CPU or GPU (for example), there's a solid chance you'll need to replace the motherboard or the power supply. At that point, we're playing Theseus.
Then again, mine was a 10 year old budget build and my hobbies changed significantly, so you might not actually need to upgrade at all if your computing needs aren't hungry.
Yeah, replacing the motherboard is when I begin to consider building a new one and repurposing my current one. Because if I’m replacing the mobo, I’m probably going to have to replace the CPU and RAM, because the sockets will be different. And at that point, I might as well just go ahead and replace the PSU too, so the rating is up to date. Now I can rip out my old GPU and move it over, but that would leave my old build without one… And what if I wanted to use it for something that would potentially need a GPU, like a 4k Plex/Jellyfin server? My cooler can probably be repurposed, at least?
you're only saying that because you have the one computer
wait until you start running your own servers and whatnot. used prebuilts with some expansion room are the most cost effective
for my gaming pc, though? fuck no. just keep changing parts out as required
wait until you start running your own servers and whatnot
Oh yeah I forgot about that, I've already bought several computers by that metric.
I built my PC in 2003. I upgraded it 3 times. I still use the same case.
Software subscriptions. I’ll buy a perpetual license if there’s no decent open source alternative as long as it will run offline. For example, $300 for Marvelous Designer back in the day was reasonable, but they can fuck right off with the subscription-only model.
Shareholders are the worst, but I can't blame individuals for buying shares (including myself) where it's basically shooting yourself in the foot to not buy shares.
So who do you mean by shareholders? The ETF that I buy so I don't have to manually buy the whole market, or a pension fund? Funds are the only other thing I can think of that I'd describe that way.
I get the stocks one totally, I try and boycott companies/countries/policies I don't like by investing my money in certain ways, but stocks generally are necessary to stop you from losing money to inflation
Index and Mutual funds. Fidelity is largely free when it comes to investing in managed accounts. Vanguard if you're fancy and can afford the fees.
Do you buy used phones? How do you deal with the battery? Used phones generally have old batteries, no?
I just buy a cheap/budget (mid?) phone, 200 EUR max, every 5 years or so..
You can get phone batteries from Aliexpress for very cheap. They are typically not too difficult to replace (as long as the back panel is not glass). Give it a go!
My phone is a Galaxy S9+ from 2018 that I bought used in 2020 for about $200. The battery life is diminished but it lasts through the day.
I will likely need to buy another refurbished phone soon though, as support for this device is getting cut from my banking app. I try to buy them at $300 or lower.
I like to get some scratchies every now and then - it's one of the major funding sources for museums and sports in the UK, so I see it as a little donation with a dopamine hit rather than an attempt at winning big!
I try to avoid the keyboard mash sellers on Amazon but for some products it’s pretty much impossible to find anything else.
Oddly enough the keyboard mash sellers can be great value depending on the item you're ordering. Basically any kind of components or anything that would realistically be purchased by another factory in China has a pretty decent chance of being good enough quality. Hand tools or individual components for making stuff for example are pretty safe bets
I would never buy the subscriptions that most people buy (YouTube Premium, Netflix or similar). It's just too easy to pirate.
Fully automated coffee machines. I love coffee but these things suck, coffee tastes weak and they often break. They even mold inside.
Making coffee like a barista is infinitely more satisfying. A combined coffee machine: grinder and pressured hot water is bound to be cheaper than a fully automated one. You can push the grains down yourself, and make the coffee as strong or weak as you like.
Love my aeropress.
The best pourover kits in existence cost like $25 USD max too. There's no reason to not learn how to do it right.
You will still need a good grinder for your beans and those things are expensive. Assuming you don't want plastic bits in your grind.
I have one that just sits on top of my coffee cup.
The pour over press is the best coffee flavor I've ever had. And so inconvenient.
Expensive phones
Dryer sheets
Also not sure how to search within a thread on piefed app...
Buy dryer balls, they are reusable and last for as long as you don't lose them.
We got a four pack that became a 3 pack after the first day until my wife found the fourth one in the hood of a hoodie she hadn't worn in a while.
But why? Why is having static-y clothes a problem.
Television. It's like paying to see ads.
Hand soap. Dish soap works better and you can use it on dishes in addition to your hands.
A dining table. I eat at my desk or standing at a counter. I was pressured into buying one by family because it was apparently bizarre to them I did not have one. Got the cheapest one I could find to appease them. I have now owned it for 4 years and it has never been used once, it just takes up space.
Just wanted to add that dish soap is actually very strong and removes all the natrual oils from your skin. If you are prone to sensitive skin it's a bad habit to regularly use dish soap as it can aggrivate it. Every now and then isn't going to hurt though.
I’ve had glasses for a long time and interestingly they clean better with hand soap. Many have suggested to use dish soap but it seems to be less effective. I’d imagine most of the stains come from being in contact with skin so I’m a bit surprised.
True enough. I haven't had any problems in using it myself but I supposed you could ratio it with some water or something to make it not as intense for hands.
It's a lot cheaper than hand soap too so in doing this you could probably get a tonne of hand washes out of it for really cheap.
The primary downside to it for me is that it lasts ages and I get kind of tired of the smell.
I couldn't live without a dining table. Where else would I keep car parts when they come out of the dishwasher?
Hand soap. Dish soap works better and you can use it on dishes in addition to your hands.
I was always told it would fuck up your hands. Does it?
It makes mine dry as fuck, but you can always moisturize with lotion after
In my personal experience, it absolutely does. Only time I've ever had seriously painful dry skin on my hands was when I was out of hand soap for a week. But I do wash my hands frequently.
Not in my experience. I guess it might depend on the brand or affect individuals differently, but I've been using grocery store off-brand dish soap for this for like 10 years and never had a problem.
Soap and detergent are different things. A bar of soap is way cheaper than dishwashing liquid.
Yes but I think there is a miscommunication here.
I'm not talking about detergent/dishwashing liquid - I'm talking about liquid dish soap which I can purchase locally for about $3 to the litre and is a different thing.
Detergent/dishwashing liquid is definitely much more expensive and probably would not be great for washing hands.
Bar soap is definitely still cheaper though overall, you are correct.
Television. It’s like paying to see ads.
+. And the only couple of local channels I'd even consider watching can be viewed online for free anyway.
Not if you have a media player... I dont watch anything with ads.
Yes, that's what I mean. I don't pay for TV because I just put all of my media on a Jellyfin server as I also don't want to watch ads, let alone pay to watch ads.
A dining table is good for when family comes over and you want to eat something together. Now I also use it to eat something with my wife, but before I rarely used it. It helped that it was a hand me down from my mother though, so I didn't have to pay anything.
Yea, in my case im not sure what the impression of me was. I am single and work full time and don't have the money or time to cook meals for 4 people let alone the dishes and stuff for that many.
Disposable electronics.
My sister in law keeps sending my wife SINGLE-USE USB charge pods. What the fuck would anyone spend money on that for?
Anything apple
Apples are my favourite snack!
I don't know if never.
But I don't want a smartwatch.
I've never carried a watch in general and I don't see the appeal of it when I carry a smartphone all day anyway.
I freaking love wearing a wristwatch, but it's most useful for stuff when you're running around grabbing stuff trying to get kids out the door, or carrying a ton of stuff while setting up/tearing down a display for an event, basically situations not condusive to most smart watches where you have to do a gesture of some kind to wake the screen, you just want to quickly glance and continue
Also having been getting heavy into fitness (biking specifically but also some running and hiking), I get how cool having heart data and whatnot is, but ehhhh. Kinda not really necessary. I get handy GPS data from my phone and that's sufficient. I can't do anything meaningful with the heart data, but I can make very useful decisions with distance/time metrics! Or when lifting just knowing the weight I'm working with, how many sets & reps is more than enough
I was in the same boat until I started running. It's very nice to monitor heart rate so you can stick to a target heart rate.
I have been happy with my Garmin. It is functional without having to connect to anything, and data can be easily exported to a computer for more advanced processing. It is a handy GPS receiver that lets me monitor heart rate and log running metrics.
Alcohol, tobacco
Season passes for games.
Tickets to sports events. Yawn.
And concerts. I haven't seen a concert since the 90s. I'm lucky to have grown up in the era of cheap tickets.
In the 70s, I worked in a record store that sold tickets for the local outdoor summer venue. Lawn seats were $3, and it took 45 minutes to get there. If we worked the day shift in the summer, and got off at 5, and that nights show wasn't sold out yet, we could grab a $3 ticket, and be at the show before it started.
I was also a fan of the local orchestra, who played there every week, and never fully sold out. I went to a LOT of those shows.
Hadestown is coming to town, and I'd love to see it, but the cheapest seat in the last row, off to the side, is about $70, so they can go fuck themselves. Entertainment is for the rich. I'll just pirate the show, if there's a proshot of it. Besides, I love the original concept album much better than the Broadway version anyway. Hades is far better in the original.
Honestly even at the current going rates of $50-100 a ticket going to some good concerts is still a blast and still worth it. Also usually there's going to be at least one opener and depending on the show they might have 2-3 bands performing. Personally I'm happy if I get to do 1-3 big concerts a year, and that's really not that much to budget for even at $100/ticket, and some bands are freaking incredible to see live.
Also worth poking around to see if there's any free/cheap music events near you or comparing with the cost of tickets to a music festival if you really want to be cheap/picky. There's a couple of free music events I try to go to every year at nearish cities to me and it's literally free entry and they'll have a full lineup of bands for the full weekend. I've seen Bobaflex, Powerman5000, The Haunt, Black Stone Cherry, Taproot, Red Jumpsuit Apperatus, Fastball, Fozzy etc. all at these free music festivals
My local B league hockey team does discount nights with cheap seats and cheap options for beer/soft drinks and snacks. My wife and I will get tickets, have a few drinks and snacks and spend a total of maybe a little over $20. Even on full price nights it's maybe $50 for the same.
Plus there's the fights that almost always break out. Or, as the saying goes, there was a fight and a hockey game broke out.
Sometimes, I find it interesting to watch short clips of professional athletes doing exceptional things that most humans can’t do, but I don’t have the patience to sit on my ass for hours watching a ball go back and forth.
Anything that runs anything by Google
Why would you need a VPN? Is it for pirating content?
To look at recipes.
Obviously.
A few people are saying "streaming services", I go further and rarely-if-ever buy entertainment media. Music, videos, games, websites.
Not even pirating most of the time, there's a whole world of good Creative Commons music, FOSS games and actual creative communities (not just parasocial fan communities) for me to be entertained for lifetimes. It's just healthier to be outside the world of profit and addiction machines. (It amazes me that people can think 'influencer' is not a creepy ominous title)
(It amazes me that people can think ‘influencer’ is not a creepy ominous title)
Now that you point it out, it definitely is.
Expensive clothes or new clothes
I just wear no clothes like god intended.
Restaurant fries and drinks.
Was on a really tight budget for a time, so I know I can feed myself for a few Euros a day. Going back to fast food restaurants at all still instils some guilt in me, but there is 1 that has unbelievably good prices and I can still appreciate the convenience at times.
But fries and drinks are just a scam with how big the profit margins are, and not even hard to prepare at home if you're ordering take out or have it delivered (I also don't pay for delivery, my bike is free).
I agree for the drinks. But I can't cook fries like my local burger place does. And it's cheap, like half a dollar (USD equivalent of my home currency) for 1 box of fries.
Have you tried brushing the tatos with oil before baking them?
God restaurants have gotten so expensive, especially delivery. $15-$18 for a burger, another $4-$6 for fries, multiplied by two, plus delivery fees, taxes, and tip… easily $50+
Yeah and I just don't like fries that much anyway. If I get fast-food, I'm getting two value menu burgers, not one regular full meal.
By the same token, you can save a lot not ordering rice at places where that's the carb on the side, and making your own instead.
Robot vacuum cleaner
Easily one of my favorite appliances, up there with dishwasher and washing machine. My floors are always insanely clean because that thing drives around every day.
Same. Mine vaccums, sweeps and mops. I refill the water tank once a week and replace the bag once a month. Everything is so clean.
It has eaten a few naughty things though. It are a USB cable, it dragged my laptop off a sofa, and it entangled itself in a plastic sheet that was draped over my coffee table and dragged some acrylic paints and a litre of wash water off onto itself. Made a big mess. I also changed its spoken language to Vietnamese for a laugh, then when I changed my wifi router, I had to learn how to follow instructions in Vietnamese to reconfigure it to the new SSID.
Is it sending a map of my house to the CCP? Probably. Is that useful information for them? Probably not.
Aren't you afraid it will mess up the piano?
Honestly one of the surprisingly good things I've gotten.
That said, I have one of the dumb ones. It doesn't map my house and upload it to the cloud.
You can find these old / used / open box pretty cheap now.
I got a 2+ year old model that originally sold for like $1500 USD, for ~200.
yeah. We recieved one as a gift. It was ok for a while, but you had to keep the floor clear, and it was always getting stuck. Now with small kids. Forget about it.
I'll also never get one, as my room has big roof construction bars on the floor.
Any paid subscription which doesn't either
a) Save me money, eg Amazon prime (although someone else in my family has Prime so if I need something from Amazon I just use their account) b) Do something I can't setup myself
And especially no subscriptions which give me the licenses to digital media, without hardware, eg xbox or netlfix
Mostly it's to do with boycotts. Like, it's not the end of the world if you don't play a video game. I'm generally quite loose with my money if it's not on any boycott list, since I can feel good about even pointless things if my money isn't going to something evil.
Paper news subscription or any printed magazine
I've only bought printed local zines/papers as a form of donation to alternative media, the same material is published by them online for free anyway.
The maps are better in the print copy of National Geographic
NatGeo was the finest magazine on the planet for generations, then Fox got their hands on it and made it a religious rag, then sold it to some other company that managed to make it worse.
What an ignominious end to one of the greatest publications in the history of man, and that's no exaggeration.
P*rn premium subscriptions
If you can afford to pay for the content you consume it's generally better to pay for it, especially with regards to the porn industry which takes every scummy practice of traditional media and is 10x worse because it's not really happening in the open
any printed magazine
For some hobbies printed magazines are still the Pinnacle of media related to the hobby, so as long as the media company behind the magazine hasn't changed hands and significantly degraded quality (looking at you Kalmbach publishing!) paying for a magazine so you get something fun to look at in the mail each month/quarter/whatever can be quite enjoyable
Condoms. Get a surgery and have the little guy fixed. Can’t get anyone pregnant that way. Be careful who you sleep with. Make sure both people get tested before doing the deed. No need for the condom at that point.
Unless someone can provide another reason to get a condom. I’m happy to be corrected.
Make sure both people get tested before doing the deed.
Not one for spontaneity, eh? 😄
"I've had a great night, what do you say we keep this night going?"
"Sure, swab yourself here, here, and here and spit in this tube, and in a couple days, if all goes well, I will be so down for that!"
I got a vasectomy when I was already in for other surgery, but condoms were a mild annoyance with a more than acceptable tradeoff. They're ready to go whenever, it's a no-go for some if you won't use one, and it's as much for my own protection as it is for the other person. I wouldn't necessarily expect someone to take my word on it that I got it done right off the bat either.
If you're out dating, I think it's just respectful to have them available. Different people have different comfort levels, so one should come prepared to accommodate.
The latex free ones aren't a bad idea either if you need to keep some on hand. My partner has an allergy so I couldn't use regular ones. They were more expensive, but I actually thought they were better, and it was still a low price to pay, considering what I got in return. She carried her own, but after we continued going out I wasn't going to make her keep paying for them every time.
If you are done having children or don't want any. Vasectomies aren't always reversible.
That is always good advice to give. I do appreciate you saying it. I have no interest in having kids though.
Don't you have to wait 30+ days between tests to do the deed and avoid STDs?
Don’t you have to wait 30+ days between tests to do the deed and avoid STDs?
They have pills now that will keep you "ready" for 30+ days
STDs.
Unplanned sex, new relationships, sometimes partners cheat.
You all should know that there's an easy way to make a condom feel much better: put a drop of lubricant (condom-safe, of course) inside the reservoir tip before putting the condom on. I've also heard that doing this makes it less likely to tear too, which makes sense.
Hair product. I use a bar of Irish Spring for everything.
I have done that in a pinch but disliked how it made my hair feel. For me, shampoo bars are a good compromise because the feel/smell nice but one bar lasts me like, a year.
Jarred tomato sauce. It’s one of the easiest things to make and every jarred sauce I have ever had tasted like shit
I buy the cheap store brand stuff and flavor at home. Spices, fresh garlic, a little sauteed onion.
I make my own marinara, but I used canned tomatoes and sauces for the ingredients. I'm not par boiling and peeling fucking tomatoes. I'm dumping a shitton of ingredients into the pot, mixing, and letting it simmer for an hour or so, mixing occasionally.
Alcohol, cigarettes, drugs, Hulu, Netflix, Xbox, PlayStation, Disney+, HBO, Tesla vehicles, dating apps,
No drugs tho ? Dudes raw dogging life.
Drugs cost money. Am maxxed out with food, shelter, & transportation expenses. Exercise is my drug. It's a FREE daily endorphin/adrenaline high, & it's healthy, & all the side effects are positive, with no withdrawals, no hangovers, & improves body, thinking clarity, relationships, and as a bonus get to date hot people because exercise makes us all smokin hot.
Funko Pops
Ebooks
Turn-based games
Why not turn based games?
I’ve just been burned too many times. There are so many great turn-based games, but they have never held my attention. 4x and ttgs are exceptions, I guess, although the last 4x I played was Civ V.
I’ve tried:
Yakuza Like a Dragon
Darkest Dungeon
Pokémon Videogames
Valkyria Chronicles
If I play another turn-based game, it will be Bauldur’s Gate 3. I’ve been on the fence about purchasing it since it came out.
Smart home devices. IOT devices. Subscriptions to things I paid for at purchase (car stuff like upgraded performance or heated seats)
Car. I hope I never have to buy a car. They suck.
Smart - anything.
Why do you need a smart doorbell? Why do you need a smart appliance? You're just inviting waves of survelliance not to mention the bandwidth from all of that shit having to tap into the internet.
Onions. Can't stand 'em.
😢
Cook em?
I hate fresh onions, but grilled / sauteed / caramelized onions are fantastic!
Nope! I hate all forms of onion except powdered. I can occasionally stand them if they chopped very small.
It's a texture thing mostly.
sad ogre noises
Holiday decorations. They are just plastic shit. Put a gun to my head, I would already know that every other weekend estate sale is going to have a whole room full of decor that is headed for a landfill. Some psychotics even buy new gimcrack every single year. They are evil, and they need to be stopped.
Besides maybe pretty lights, from the designs and things I've seen that are made in any holiday, I don't know who the hell would fucking buy this shit. Other than the Joneses and families that feel they gotta feel decorative so they force it onto themselves.
Just get a few lights, a tree, maybe a single decor and call it good.
Ethanol, caffeine, mushroom, and cauliflower
At the same time?
Is this a recipe?
Why cauliflower???
When people are over my house I usually offer them an "adult beverage" but now I'm totally replacing that with "ethanol"
I could go the rest of my life without eating out of a can. Unthinkable sentence in college
Sports paraphernalia or memorabilia.
Wage slaves