Question for y'all looking at this: are there any Lemmy communities that aren't necessarily cis-male-specific that I can post this sort of thing in, other than this one?
There's not really a whole lot of genderqueer comms that I'm aware of. Maybe !femboys@lemmynsfw.com but there's not a lot of stuff around here specific to the amab enby territory besides femboy/sissy stuff.
If you haven't found it already, there's also !trans@lemmynsfw.com . You can also create a community if you have something completely different in mind than what exists.
You could try !gonewild@lemmynsfw.com, for example. Or the ones mentioned in this thread by other people. The twin sister community to this one (!cocks@lemmynsfw.com would be fine as well (as well as being a bit more active lately, as far as I looked into that).