Content-wise, I think we aren't in a bad spot. There's a tonne of information available online that wasn't accessible before. Wikipedia is a pretty great example, but the millions of howtos scattered across Instructables, YouTube, and other sites are also pretty amazing. Yeah, there's monetization and SEO crap, but I think (hope?) it's a net positive.
Application-wise, I think we're also in an okay spot. Almost anyone can publish videos, text, and opinions on corporate publishing tools. If you want, you can spin up a private server with just a credit card, and do whatever you want with incoming traffic. Web browsers aren't quite Neuromancer/Shadowrun decks, but they do allow anytime to run untrusted code safely on a local machine.
Did all this free information bring us together? No. Not yet, at least. But I think that's what the early tech utopians got wrong. We aren't insufferable jerks because we don't know any better, we're insufferable jerks because we know better and choose to do it anyway.