on the male loneliness epidemic
on the male loneliness epidemic
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Dumbass take.
A "skill issue" take, is just a republican "personal responsibility" take.
It's dumb as fuck. How about you examine the systems that produce outcomes? Have you learned literally nothing from the last 50 years of the social justice movement?
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Most women tend to not want to form relationships with misogynistic incels. That's what's seen as a skill issue.
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Or men with autism or adhd. Cause that's who you target with "just be more social and enjoyable."
Men spending time to fix their financial issues instead of socializing up there too.
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Don't deprive the weak men of their agency. So many Trump toxicity 'outcomes' chose this.
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https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feedback
The notion of cause-and-effect has to be handled carefully when applied to feedback systems:
Simple causal reasoning about a feedback system is difficult because the first system influences the second and second system influences the first, leading to a circular argument. This makes reasoning based upon cause and effect tricky, and it is necessary to analyze the system as a whole.
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The solution to a complex system isn't to fret about how complex it is, it's to cut the feedback loop.
Weak men who developed toxic politics are caught in a feedback loop. Cut them out of it. Not complicated, just abrasive.
But you can continue constructing your nuanced and sympathetic understanding. These men just need to be understood, that will help them.
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You're advocating genocide, or at least, one step away from it, and you don't even seem to realize it.
You also seem to have no grasp of how complex systems or feedback work, given that feedback is a necessary and inherent part of many systems and cannot just be 'cut out'.
Quite frankly, you're more toxic then most of the men you seem to despise.
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it does not follow from the marginalization of the other that every time you experience the marginalization of the other, it is directly connected to genocide. humans are more than ideal atoms, and some of them need to be communicated with in the language of harsh blunt truth.
Men who are unfuckable because of their politics need to man up. If you are spending several hundred words to say: "please integrate a more healthy relationship with masculinity" which is literally just telling them to man up with extra steps that they are uninterested in, you should consider that they are man enough to need to hear: "man up."
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