'94 model (trans)Woman, few bumps and scrapes but good condition overall
Poly marriage, Bi
A risk to your establishment
"If god we're real, Bezos would have died in space"
"Apathy's a tragedy and boredom is a crime"
"The only thing necessary for evil to triumph is for good men to do nothing"
"Quotes are for people too stupid to say anything intelligent on their own"
I cant wait til its in your hands!! Honestly im kinda the same way, i want it nowwwww 😭 Well to be fair id give my left kidney to start it 10 yrs ago, but later is better than never. 😂 Ill be here waiting with you, so exciting ❤️
Oh trust me i know, power is in crowds! I play medic at the ice facility here in town when i can 😊
Yay im glad i could help. No need for thanks, i love helping people and lifting them up, is just who i am ❤️
Sounds a bit rough, i hate mood fluctuations 😭 i feel so fucking crazy when that happens.
I believe in your strength to endure tho, and im jelly of your boots!
You got this! ❤️
Youll get there sooner than you think, promise! ❤️
5 years ago i woulda told you that im probly not going on hrt or doing anything medically. 3 years ago i couldnt imagine leaving my house even at night in fem. 2 years ago i woulda said theres no way that ill publicly out myself in any way. One year ago there no way i would left the house in broad daylight in fem. 6 months ago i woulda said no way to any surgeries. 3 months ago i would said its too soon for a pathways appt. I think you can guess how that all went 😂😂
Seriously though, your journey is yours and noone elses, take as long or short of a time as you need. Every sister here deserves to take their time blossoming into the beautiful flower theyre meant to be! ❤️
Edit: when i am done with masc clothes, there no way in hell me burning them doesnt end up as a post here
Alone in hotel rooms? You make that sound bad, id be going wild! I guess if its your job tho 🤷♀️
Congraties im so happy for you! My first pathways appt is in 42 days and it CAN NOT GET HERE SOON ENOUGH. Im actually checking the app everyday like 3 times a day to see if theres an earlier appt.
That said, i still wont be able to start until the summer at the very earliest 😭
Well, to be fair, i expected lots to say fuck ice, i didnt expect all the good girls lmao. I dont hate it 😂
But yeah, fuck ice. And fuck any fascist paramilitary regime coming to trample all over everyones rights. Ill die on my feet before i turn coward and stand by and watch my brothers and sisters get abused ❤️
Hell yeah! You may think this dress is made for me. But ill let you in on a little secret, i barely fit this dress comfortably, and if i gain any more weight than what i have now, it will not fit.
Lol i do love this dress though. Its what made me realize that the all black goth punk look i always thought i liked was just me dressing dark to disappear, turns out im a light color nature theme cabin in the woods gal 😂 i love it, just unexpected
Try not to think too hard about it, just send it! If you think too hard and stare at yourself in the mirror i guarantee youll find something you hate that noone else will notice. We all do it. I do it with my shoulders and chin alot, i just try not to dwell on it.
Also, thrift stores! Thats where you can get cheap dresses in different cuts and fits and find what you like! If anything doesnt fit, or you dont like the way it looks, just re donate it! (Obviously if youre in the financial position to do so) ive actually done that with entire hauls before. Ill get them all thrift, get home to try on (cause not completely public yet) decide i hate them all and re donate them 😂
Whatever you do, youll rock it!
Youre exactly where im at, my post with the yellow sundress was first time public in daylight in a moderately crowded area. It was scary, but the feeling of being who i saw far outweighed the fear. Now im just waiting to therapy (6 days woo) to finally tell her what i shouldve been talking about this whole time, gotta plan a talk with my partner to ease my kid into it. Scheduled my gender pathways appt in late may, very exciting stuff going on!
Im glad you had fun! I wanna burn all my masc clothes too, and i will! Just not quite yet, soon tho
Aww im sorry girly, its tough being underage and still under parents thumb. I do hope it gets better for you, hopefully your this years class?
Congraties on the shots though! I cant say im not a little envious, what i wouldnt give to start hrt but like 10 years ago 😂
Keep on keeping on, and dont let the world drag you down ❤️
Yeah! You got this, noone needs to be doing something important 24/7. Thats toxic patriarchal bullshit. Its ok to just veg sometimes ❤️
Ahh sorry to hear that! If it helps, being unproductive isnt a bad thing! Its my prefered way to be ❤️
No problem! Its better when we all share what works and what doesnt
Sooooo first off i highly recommend the breast form store, look for it on google or whatevs. Their great, and if you need extra help with fit and stuff they are great in that dept as well. Not an ad, just love their work. Also will ship discreetly to you, plain package with a generic return address, if thats a concern.
So, you looked and got forms, now what? Well to start you can get pocketed bras, from the same place or elsewhere, thatll help you get a feel for having them and being able to adjust somewhat on the fly is good. They slip right into the pocket, and is by far the easiest way to wear them.
But i wanna wear this skimpy top and my bra shows! Or i wanna go braless! Never you fear, medical grade adhesive is here! All these next products are available on amazon, but look for them elsewhere if you dont want to fund bezobubs new rocket. I personally use (and HIGHLY recommend) skinister medical silicone adhesive, paired with UniSolve wipes to clean them afterward. This adhesive is the only one i ever tried that will hold, no matter what you do, for as long as you want it to hold.
Wear gloves and thank me later. You spread an even layer of adhesive (less is more, 2-3 sprays is usually enough for mine) and apply where you want. You then want a nice comfy underwired and supportive bra to wear for atleast a half hour. The best way is to apply, lean back in a chair or lay down, and apply moderate pressure evenly for 10-20 minutes. Seems long, but its the difference between holding and peeling.
Some other notes i dont see often enough, but i feel are super important:
-good lord, tape your nips! I use the same kinesiology tape as for tucking. Trust me, your nipples are very sensitive and forms do tug and pull and shift, even though they are glued down.
-never spray the adhesive directly on your skin. Never let oil touch forms. But do get a bottle of baby oil for any adhesive residue on your skin. Its the best way to remove it without messing up your skin.
-you do you, they say not to wear them to sleep or to not wear them for looong periods of time, ive done both. Like everything else in life, its about your risk tolerance vs reward.
-take them off slowly, not tons of pressure, youll hurt yourself. Clean them with adhesive remover everytime after your done. Wash with mild soap and water at least every other time (i recommend toy cleaner from your local adult store)
-you might have to get a few different ones to figure out size. The size guide is generally pretty good.
unfortunately forms do not grow or shrink with you. If you like your look, and gain 15lbs, you might need different ones. Its a learning process for sure, and im here to help anyone here anytime.
Oh and once you figure out size and all, get a backup pair! They ARE fragile! If you poke a hole in them, or put extreme pressure, theyre done and you cant really repair them. My cats clawed mine one time when i didnt put them away quickly enough and i was devasted. Also get a good storage solution for them, especially if you have pets. I use a harbor freight pelican case knockoff.
Wow thats alot of text, sorry for the novel! Hope this helps anyone who does read it ❤️
Quick edit: this is all me using the cheapest forms on there, and theyre in all my pictures. I feel like im gonna grow my own, so i dont wanna spend thousands on them, mine are 90$ generally. Im not recommending the hugely expensive ones here
Its so true, its tough feeling like this and not knowing why. With me i couldnt figure out what the meaning of what i felt was.
Ive had a few "crushes" that felt weird to me because i never thought about being intimate with them, i just wanted to be around them ALL THE TIME. Later figured out this is why lmao
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