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  • Do gender roles have a stranglehold on heterosexual relationships, or does social media just make it feel that way?

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  • I know a bunch of people in happy cis-hetero relationships where there is no bs going on with traditional gender role expectations. A dear friend of mine is a super sweet, sensitive and emotionally open cis-lad. He and his wife are very happy together. He's got pink hair, dresses pretty funky and is super adorable while his wife is more on the butch side with a healthy 'let's do this' hands on mentality and a nice casual look. That's just one exampel. Almost all my hetero lady friends go for emotionally open and cute lads. Just be yourself, find the right person to date and be happy together.

  • Erika rules

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  • Seeing them live soon. :)

  • It's really not

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  • Candy for Mandy. :) Treat yourself every once in a while.

  • Greggs to open first pub with its own beers on draft

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  • To be fair, there are both types of pubs. Since I do not care for sports or fancy places, I always go to the more quaint ones. I love those links, by the way. Thanks a mil.

  • Greggs to open first pub with its own beers on draft

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  • Really? When I'm going to a pub in the UK it's called something like "The Old George" or "The King's Inn", the building must be a few hundred years old with a door frame so low it bonks any unsuspecting patron right in the head. There are at least two fireplaces lit, minimum requirement of one sleepy old dog who's been there since forever and all the furniture looks like it's been hand carved way before anyone came up with the idea of DIN standards. The only music playing is of course made by some fiddler and a patron singing off-key since they had at least a few pints too many.

  • But I don't like the burning!

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  • And I just tested the hot sauce Da bomb beyond insanity. Long story short, it lives up to its name.

  • Do you ever go out, and while you're out, you think, ‘this is exactly why I don't go out’?

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  • Those places are lovely, of course I know then - I'm from there :D

  • Do you ever go out, and while you're out, you think, ‘this is exactly why I don't go out’?

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  • I'm queer and once had a date with a black woman from the States while living in Dublin, Ireland. She asked me if I could be her local tourist guide. Sure thing!

    Walked her all across the shitty overpriced city centre. At some point she asked me:

    "Am I the only black person around here?"

    Eventually decided to ditch the CC and take a taxi to my local area.

    Waltzed into my regular pub holding hands, cuddeling.

    The entire place filled with white cis locals went dead silent like in a bad cliche movie.

    "Harry, two pints of the black stuff, will ye?"

    Peeps realised that at least I was a local and continued minding their own business.

    Jeez...

  • I do indeed

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  • The basic mindset of our dog. :D

  • How and why did you get banned?

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  • I just nuked my account and fecked off to Lemmy after the API kill.

  • Rule model

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  • I don't think so since they are divorced and retired.

  • Rule model

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  • I'm the person responsible for my surname becoming extinct worldwide. It was a very rare one and I was the only one left being able to pass it on. Too bad I changed my surname when I got married, plus I'm queer. Double kill for that legacy. The last few people on this planet with my previous surname will be the last ones.

  • You have to make 40 dollars in 3 hours or your family will explode. What do you do?

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  • Go to the Winchester, have a nice cold pint, and wait for all of this to blow over.

    Needless to say I'm not too fond of my family...

  • hold up!

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  • I just started watching Dexter again. Hmmm...

  • HAWT

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  • I rarely speak well of English people or English food, but damn, thanks to them I found the holy grail of Mac n Cheese recipes.:D

  • Do you play an instrument? What's your favorite thing about it?

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  • Don't worry,I learnt from my past mistakes. I've got solid ear protection now and also wear earplugs for all concerts I'm attending.

  • Do you play an instrument? What's your favorite thing about it?

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  • I used to program electronic music and play live keyboard until I wrecked my hearing on stage.

    I picked up playing drums 1.5 years ago and love it. I've been teaching drums for almost 2 months now at a music school.

    Drumming relaxes me a lot, it's a good workout and even with my impaired hearing I can still play them.

  • Who is the next Daft Punk (earlier stuff) to you?

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  • Bingo, that's the one. I was lucky enough to see the band live twice in their home town Paris. Each time I left the venue speechless. :)

  • Pick!

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