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  • I hate to say it but I think that person is a troll, after their last few replies I checked their modlog history and they seem to have engaged in very similar behavior before. The only reason they "stopped" here is because they were given a community ban.

  • Oh, that's really good to know. I was under the impression it was more guaranteed to cause issues than it actually does. Even though I would love the other effects of it I probably still won't do it unless there's some way to prevent breast growth. Lots of people say that I should just deal with them or embrace them but if I had boobs it would suck, and top surgery leaves nasty scars 😔.

  • It is extremely wrong to say that cross-dressing makes a person trans, and it is offensive to call other people trans who don't identify as such because it is literally misgendering them. Trying to argue that cross-dressing is "under the trans umbrella" is just a roundabout way of trying to say they are trans without directly saying it and you're not fooling anyone with these deceitful tactics.

    You like, really need to drop this because you've already been given the hint to stop and you keep going.

  • You are, saying that you think people are trans because they'd "go all out n women's clothes" is indeed reinforcing gender stereotypes, and it is misgendering to say that people who don't identify as trans are trans.

    Now I’m being diagnosed with intrusive thoughts? lol

    You're right, I was too charitable. You don't have intrusive thoughts, but straight up harmful ideas that you openly admit to and act upon, especially since you're still going and haven't gotten the message that what you're doing or saying is uncool and needs to stop.

  • Reinforcing gender stereotypes and misgendering others is not the kind of thought that should be shared out loud. Like people might have horrible intrusive thoughts but if and when they recognize them for what they are they will let them pass without acting on or speaking them.

    I used to and still on occasion have intrusive thoughts that are transphobic but I know not to speak them because they are hurtful and untrue. You need to do the same with your idea that people are trans because of appearance of clothing, just let the thoughts pass or stuff them down, and not speak them out loud. You wouldn't act on intrusive thoughts you know to be harmful. This isn't much different.

  • Don't argue that dressing a certain way makes someone trans or makes them seem trans. This idea blatantly reinforces gender stereotypes because it assumes that a certain threshold of gender non-conformity changes or is indicative of a different gender, this is toxic as fuck.

    By the way I dress as feminine or more feminine than the last panel, very often might I add. I am more than certain that I am indeed 100% a boy.

    Also before someone says it, yes, one can still be a femboy if they choose to take estrogen. I know femboys who do, they're still boys and will absolutely remind you if you forget or try and insist they aren't. Some might ask how is that possible? Answer, because they identify and call themselves boys. Simple as that. You can't decide someone else's gender for them, no matter the circumstances.

  • Seconded, I'm so tired of people calling me an egg or saying I'm not cis for being fem, or worse, because I'm gay and like boys. Yes some dipshit actually said that to me, they said that a boy liking boys "isn't entirely cis", which is so wrong and also homophobic as fuck.