Well that depends on the context of their lives. Maybe it's hard to find a partner, maybe they're focused on starting their career, maybe they don't have the confidence yet to start, maybe they don't want to be tied down etc
Yeah ive heard of this, and reminds me of trying to see faces and objects in the clouds with mates when i was a kid (and trying to find which cloud looked the most like a dick, but you didnt hear me say that)
My pet hate was always trailers not showing gameplay