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MapleFawn

@ MapleFawn @lemmy.blahaj.zone

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  • Off to my second therapy session

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  • Ah that makes sense, thank you. We have a good store in town but I am not quite ready yet to talk with people in the outside world. Will give it a second or more to dwell on it :D

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  • What is Sephora? I find an online shop for makeup with that name but could not see the tool on my quick check. I have definitely a closer look and more thorough search later.

    The more I read about makeup the more convinced I am that you need a diploma to tell all these things apart :X

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  • Yea I am also hoping to get that deal of approval, but the more time I spent here, the more I open up and talk about it the more confidence I get that I am indeed trans.

    I am happy that you have a therapist with whom you work well together!

  • What is the fantasy book/series everyone should read?

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  • While sex is in it it was never the focus of it imho. I love the series but I do think ppl. do somewhat overstate the amount of sex that is happening. Sure it gets to be a tad bit more frequent in the later books but is not the main focus. The world building is amazing and the story is fantastic. So even if you are not too into the whole sex/romance stuff you ca enjoy the series.

  • had this convo just yesterday 🤦‍♀️

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  • There is nothing in the books itself that is anti trans (AFAIK and remember), it is that people equate her works with her political views which are anti trans. As a most likely trans person myself (still working out the details of it, stay tuned) I have a real struggle at my hands. On the one hand her books were a massive part of my childhood and early teens. I waited in line out side book stores to get the newest one. On the other hand she uses the money she gets from licenses and the IP to fund anti trans organisations. She also uses her fame / reach to spread TERF points of view. I enjoy and love the world she created back then but I cannot in good conscience consume anything that supports her now. Not any merch, series, film or game.

    I on my ow may not make a difference but the sum is more than it parts. If enough ppl. start voicing their objection to her and her views, boycott the new stuff because of her, some change might be possible. If not, sacrificing something I loved growing up is an acceptable price to pay to keep me and others safe.

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  • Thanks, I will get back to you once I hade my first hand on experience. Any tips on how to judge what is a good fit and what is not? Because ATM whenever I see myself I am not exactly happy with the face and I worry it will transfer over to when I try make up for the first time, as in that I will be hypercritical or not a good / reliable judge of what I see.

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  • This is amazing thank you!!!!! You make it sound soo easy, hopefully I’ll be good at some point.

    But this is sooo exciting already I shall try it as soon as I worked up some courage to buy supplies and all that :3

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  • I hope you get one that’s great for you too! I was really fortunate to hit a therapist that works so well with and for me right of the bat, without hassle. I heard a few too many stories of ppl. Having to swap their therapist a couple of times before they found the right one and at least so far I think she has been amazing!

    Edit: also I am happy to hear you like the coat! Hopefully it fits me well :)

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  • Thanks, that is a great basis for me to start looking into it! Much appreciated.

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  • Excellent suggestion.

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  • Thanks! Yes I was very tempted to buy the purple one as well but my financially more responsible wife told me to choose one.. I apologise that I may have fed your addiction so I strongly recommend do not click on other products on the side or you will be left wanting for more. I still have about 40 items on my wishlist there :X

    The session was great, we made good progress but it is really hard to do each topic justice in just 45 min at a time. There is such sooooo much I want and need to talk about. Kinda wants me to have a second and third therapist :D distribution of labour so to speak.

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  • I always loved the Bartimaeus books from Jonathan Stroud.

    I also think if pop culture catch-up is a concern you could read Twilight and Eragon both were quite influential in my social circle at the time they were new. I have read both and I liked them too. I don’t think that they are revolutionary or the best pice of writing but they had arguably an impact.

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  • Thanks, I have a look then at foundations and concealers.

    What is the difference between the two? Do I only use one or both together?

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  • I know! I am mad in love with it! I might just torch a place or two if it doesn’t fit me :X

  • Hi I'm Azura~

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  • I wish I had that bucket of magic, button or any other instant perfect fixes. Sadly I have not found it yet so in the meantime I try to get on HRT and possibly FFS depending on the effects of the former and how my therapy is going. Tomorrow is my second appointment :3

    I am glad that you found more confidence and hope that this community will continue to be good for you.

    I don’t know anyone else nor have I seen (consciously) any other trans person in IRL. Now I hyper focus so much on my own body and its features that I don’t think I can make any reasonably accurate assessment about mine or anyone else’s body because of my own distorted views.

  • Hi I'm Azura~

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  • Welcome and happy to meet you!

    I myself started this journey just a few months ago. I long had the same experience, to keep my wish to be a girl confined to games and fantasies.

    Growing up in the 90s as well, there was (and still is) a lot of homophobia in my home village. So as a kid I figured anything more exotic surly would mean social suicide. In a small village of 5000 people not really a good option. When you can’t leave or change schools. So I pushed that part deeeeeeep down but I also had several occasions where I really should have noticed that it does not work like that but I didn’t.

    Besides as a 13year old to wear your sisters clothing and feeling amazing is a totally cis boy thing to do.. :3 but also don’t tell anyone about it.

    I told my wife last December that I have these fantasies and we are working things out now together. It is good that you have your wife’s support, to me it has been invaluable! We were visiting my family in Germany at the time so I am extra curious to hear more about your journey in my old home! I also will have too look into these things myself as I am still a German citizen.

    If you need someone to talk to just sent me a DM I just happen to have just finished my BSc in Psychology and embark now on a mission to find a job! (Meaning I’ve got some time on my hands)

    Welcome again,

    Maple

  • I really like this dress, but I feel like something’s missing. Any tips on how to style it? (There’s another photo in the post)

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  • Hii hope you are well! For the dress you could add a small belt to it or try a white bolero kind of top?

    I like your har too!

  • Reintroducing myself on new account.. Hii!

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  • Hii Natalie! I’m pleased to meet you. I don’t have a name yet as I am still working things out for myself. So Maple will do fine.

    Since you are into Linux, what would be your top 3 tips for migrating from MS to Linux? I am dragging my feet on that one tbh.

    Have you had a good Easter Time in Sydney? Do you celebrate?

  • no regrets :3

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  • Oh sorry, I should have been clearer, my wife is in the know and is supportive. She has been invaluable in that regards but I know she is cis and technically straight only with a past curiosity about women.