Same boat as your original comment. I keep telling my wife (cis) we gotta start planning to bailout, but she's not taking it as serious.
I'm at the point of hoping I just go quick, if it comes. Trying to live my life with more intent and get the things out of it that are important; experience more while time is short, love unconditionally, etc. Very Hallmark of me, I know, but it's all I can do. Lefties screamed Nazi from the rooftops, screamed project '25, screamed while ripping hair out.. it didn't work, and here we are. I'm trying to be helpful to those I can help, but the political situation on that national level is far beyond my control.
If we gotta bail, hopefully somewhere else lets us in. If we can't bail, I just hope I'm not tortured before the end. I've lived as kind and helpful a life as I could, I think. Struggled when I couldn't be kind, but I tried. If the end comes, so it goes. History books don't remember the every day people anyways, we're already a statistic. I just hope we aren't a statistic in the Stalin-istic way.
If I were religious, I'd say I'd pray for you, and us. But since I'm not, I'll just say that I hope things get better for you, and us.
I sincerely hope it swings back to a happier place for everyone. If you can't live for happiness, love for spite. One day we'll read the obituaries (of natural causes!) for these awful people and can finally have a breath of ease.
Do try and keep yourself safe. 🧡