Number of Americans who never want kids doubled in 20 years
Number of Americans who never want kids doubled in 20 years
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Number of Americans who never want kids doubled in 20 years
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People without financial security: "kids are too expensive and I would be exhausted trying to provide for them"
People with financial security: "I'm having a good time, adding a kid to this mix would really require a step back in my lifestyle."
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There's also the moral question of "do I want to add a living person to the world I wish I didn't exist in?"
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That's why I think if I'm gonna have a kid some day it will be via adoption.
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Even if money weren't an issue for me, I'd be worried my pessimistic outlook on life would crush my potential child's spirit.
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If you are person number 2 and thus having good time you probably would want to share the good time
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If I am seen as person number 2 and not just a human being that exists and has autonomy and feelings
Then I am probably not having a good time
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Bizarre comment
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So is calling someone person number 2.
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And yet the people most concerned about birth rates fight the hardest against anything that would make people have more kids
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The irony is palpable. Bernie Sanders in 2015/2016 had the most pro-child campaign since Obama first ran, and Sanders never even mentioned "birth rates".
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The key to making this a lesser issue when it comes to keeping birth rates high is, in my opinion, a solid foundation of community trust and communal childcare.
The phrase "it takes a village" didn't just spawn out of nowhere, after all. When communities can share the responsibilities of raising children, not only does it lead to a better quality of life for the kids because they tend to get more social interaction time in and better access to their community's resources, but it also takes the burden off a lot of parents since it stops being a 24/7 job, and more of a shared, common duty to their community that is only sometimes needed, and is flexible in the case of them needing a break.
Of course, to get something like this, you need to fix the fact that we live in a very low trust society, and that is extremely difficult to do.
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See I would compare it to the permanent dread of bringing children into a world that you knew would not be a good life for them given the trajectory we are locked into now.
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I don’t really understand that argument but I guess ok, like it’s not gonna be some kind of apocalypse. People gonna be fine and your kids too
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No, no they won't
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don't feed the trolls
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Define they won’t
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There's a void? Man. Must suck.
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