11mo ago

Talking about your hobbies

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people: why don't you talk about YOUR hobbies?

me: talks about my hobbies

people:

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Now I'm curious
What are your hobbies?
- computers, geography, language learning, cycling come to mind. tbh i find that question really hard to answer when asked directly, maybe because i kind of don't enjoy my life in general.
  
  That sound genuiently sad, but it shouldn't be. Your hobbies sound totally fine, so I guess something different bothers you..
  May I ask what?
  Sorry for the question, I feel like holding a conversation today.
  
  WOW thank you! It’s super rare for anyone, let alone a stranger on the internet to care and ask. I appreciate you. You have some personality traits you come across very seldom and I hope you preserve them. I'll just put it in spoiler tags because it's long.
  
  You’re talented and independent. You’re definitely a catch.
  
  <333 thank you JoShmoe ;-;
  
  That first one happened to me too. I think it's just a teenage drama thing.
  
  So if I read it correctly, you feel like nothing you have tried had worked in terms of forming meaningful relationships. A lot of people are struggleing to form friendships nowdays. It is hard for me to make helpful suggestions about this, because I'm in a similar position, but I will try. I suggest searching and joining activities where you can meet people who have the same interests as you. I'm sure you will meet people who like you this way. If this is not feasible because of where you live, I suggest changing this. I think, relationships are a key to a happy life for most people. Last but not least I suggest talking about your hobbies for those who ask and never stop trying, Who knows where this will lead you.
  I wish ypu the best :).
  
  Thanks a lot, it was a very refreshing conversation :) That's excellent advice, and I wish you all the best also.
  
  Well I will chat about weather and climate with anyone
  
  That would just devolve into me going "and thank you for my presentation on how we are FUUUUUUCKED"
  
  i kind of don't enjoy my life in general.
  Me neither but finding a hobby helps
  
  Agreed, my houseplants (one of my hobbies) helps me mentaly, id feel so much worse if i let them down (vs myslef) and i get that much more joy when they are happy with my care (new flower/leaf/etc)
  
  computers, geography, language learning
  Are you me?
  
  my long lost cousin :')

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