What's the biggest "Green Flag" that could be misinterpreted as a "Red Flag"?

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For people who value reading: if they have no books on their shelves. They might be avid readers of ebooks, or just use the library.
But this should clear itself up with a rather simple discussion started by mentioning a book you read recently.
- But not having books on your shelves is not a green flag, it just might not be a red flag.
  
  The most prolific readers I know use the library almost exclusively. Real book a week people don't buy the books they read! They'd be broke!
  That said, they still own a million books because even if they're only buying a fraction, they still fill up their bookcases
  
  My bookshelf is a time capsule of books until about 15 years ago when I got my first ebook reader. Everything has been digital since then.
  I have a library membership of course, but I mostly make use of a digital ebook subscription service. It's so much easier than reserving books and wait-lists for the digital catalogue of the library.
  
  Totally this I read an absolute ton (and more even if you count audio books, which I do) and the vast majority is from the library. Even easier now with ebooks and apps. I've still got a pretty full bookshelf though of things like Illustrated editons, some real nice printings of some of my favorites, older books, and comics/graphic novels.
  
  My biggest issue with libraries is the limited selection, how much time it takes and the how inconvenient it is to find new books.
  
  The most prolific readers I know use the library almost exclusively. Real book a week people don't buy the books they read! They'd be broke!
  A book a week? What am I going to do with the rest of my time?
  185 books so far this year, no library card. e-books are a lot cheaper than physical books.
  For me the biggest problem with libraries is the limited selection of books. As a kid, before e-readers were a thing, I was a member of 3 different libraries just to get access to enough new reading material. E-books are a blessing for those who like to read a lot.
- I love reading but just can't, attention deficit is hard, and when I do have interest on a book/long text, I end up falling asleep two pages in, max three. I hate it ! I WANT to read this book bit keep falling asleep.
  
  Have you tried audio books? And then combining that with a different activity, like driving? Or it makes chores way better! Like I can only listen to this while doing dishes and now dishes don't suck so much
- They might also just have bad eyesight or a job that causes a lot of eye-strain so they might prefer podcasts or audio-books.

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