Beehaw's Demographics survey of June 2023!

I guess part of me wanted to get away from the same pervasive US politics that’s plaguing reddit.

i hope you understand this but: asking whether people are white or not isn't US politics, it might literally be the single most important sociological question in the world because whether you're white or not for the vast majority of living human beings immediately predetermines a huge chunk of your status globally

How does wanting to increase diversity result in fewer points of view?

IMO the interesting part is that this is not American politics. Ironically out of all the western countries, the US actually talks about it the most, but the legacy of colonialism and white supremacy is still taken as the default in much of the world. Most folks in Europe are quite blind to it since it’s really taken as the default. It’s a pretty global issue, but very few places do people openly confront it.

Yeah, sorry, I gave an American example because I'm American, but Alyaza said it best... race and its significance is not an exclusively American phenomenon by a long shot. But I sympathize with American fatigue, we do dominate the discussion a lot 😀

I'm a cis white man and I felt no offence when reading that. I also embrace diversity and I'm curious why you don't?

We could build a community of men, each having a unique points of view, but none of them would be a woman's.

The interesting thing about words is that we made them all up. Different people feel very differently about certain words in certain contexts. Slang and vernacular are perfect examples of this - we learn how people are using existing words in new ways all the time, and we adjust appropriately. What people don't always recognize, however, is that words fall in and out of fashion constantly and how they are applied are also cultural artifacts. Prolific artists, famous movies, and important political figures all shape the way we interpret specific words - the cultural zeitgeist controls more than we are often aware.

Rather than assuming that unfortunate means it must be negative, because that's the experience you've had when that word was used around you, I'd suggest asking questions and assuming good faith. You could ask what do you mean, when you use the word unfortunate before jumping to conclusions. Perhaps English isn't the posters first language, or perhaps English in the country they are from use the word unfortunate in a very different way. Questions and good faith, rather than assumptions and escalation can quickly solve any questions you have and everyone leaves happy.

I think this is also a perfect example of why diversity is so amazing to be around and experience because you get exposed to so many more ways to utilize language, so many different backgrounds, and so many diverse points of view 😄

That's true. I don't think all white folks, or men, or any other category of people is a monolith - but just that hearing, for example, a woman's POV - especially a Black woman's POV, or a trans woman's POV - on gender disparity in sports is a voice I really want to hear in that discussion, since those folks might have a very specific take on the topic. Even if everyone else in the discussion is a man - and I assume they WILL be men from a wide range of cultures, language communities, sexual orientations, etc. - still, none of them can bring the particular nuance that (in this example) a woman can.

I could get a lot more political on this, but I think that's really the heart of the issue. I believe admins are saying "we have a majority group here in these ways, and while that's not unexpected, it's unfortunate that we're pretty one-sided in those categories of folks right now - so we want to try and change that."

However, I want to acknowledge that the tendency to single out white people and men, in particular, is kind of a thing right now, which - speaking from my lived experience as a white person - can feel real bad in the immediate moment. Nobody wants to feel unwelcome or like their existence is problematic. Unfortunately, the world is set up in ways where certain groups of folks (usually white, usually men) are repeatedly asked their opinion on things, or given the power to make decisions over the lives of people from completely different backgrounds. Assuming everybody is engaging in good faith, it's more about making sure everybody has a seat at the table and less about "your very existence is problematic and you should be shunned." Yes, some people mean that when they say it, but again, that does fuck all to foster a healthy discussion space (again, within reason here - fuck fascists and so on). How tf is a woman (for example), regardless of the diversity of her lived experiences, ever going to be able to speak to men's mental issues and the crisis of care going on there? Like, a thousand women, all of them from widely different cultures and backgrounds, could never bring the personal nuance necessary to truly discuss that important issue.

Do marginalized people sometimes vent by making sweeping generalizations? Sure. Does that promote open and healthy discussion? No. But not every space is a discussion space, and I try to stay open-minded when I'm met with that energy. People are hurting; sometimes they talk shit. And this goes both ways - folks can end up defensive after hearing people talk shit constantly. That's completely natural, but I truly don't think that's the case here. And Beehaw is young - there's still lot of growing to do. That this survey was even launched makes me feel like Beehaw's future is pretty bright.

Honestly? Yes, kinda. Ancestry is a lot more a cultural phenomenon than a genetic one.

Uh, outside of census data, no, I don't think ethnicity or colour of skin is in us documents. The discrimination does not come from law targeting based on ethnicity but usually the characteristics of the social group that are inherited from segregation and slavery.

Also, yes, there is no definition of white, it's why we phrased it "do you consider yourself white?".

As an American, there isn't any official paperwork I've ever seen in the US that requests, let alone requires, my skin tone or race, with the sole exception of the US census and the occasional optional and anonymous EEOC questionnaire that some job applications have, neither of which record anything to do with skin color or appearance.

In this context it's mainly shorthand for privilege because white includes most European ancestry. I can't speak for everyone here but I absolutely love diversity and I'm thrilled we have such good representation on so many levels but this is a good potential target for improvement.

What could be offputting about this? I don’t get it.

Allowed communities, moderation styles, etc. If you find that certain demographics are not eager to participate it might suggest an issue with moderation.

Maybe there have been a lot of issues with these people you call ‘white’

I don't think that's the implication at all. They're not saying 'white' people are bad. They're expressing concern that they might be hosting a place that isn't sufficiently welcoming to others.

Calling it oppression Olympics to desire diverse representation is such an astonishingly bad faith interpretation and self report.

it's astonishing how frequently the worst takes on our instance come from kbin federation chuds who don't seem to understand where they are

You seem to go out of your way to read and response to everything in the most argumentative way possible. Basically every comment I see from you is this way. In case you are not aware, people are not obligated to talk to you. Please discover a new way to interact with people.