This is the recipe I used though I veganized it and modified it a little, mostly a couple more spices (seasoning salt and nutritional yeast) and more crackers and whatever regular, bug cracker I could find. It's a pretty simple recipe, especially if you just microwave the (soy) milk instead. Tastes really good.
https://www.tastinghistory.com/recipes/cornchowder
Elden Ring is definitely up there for hard games, yeah. Hardest games I've played are Super Ghouls 'N Ghosts, true ending Mr. Gimmick, The Guardian Legend, Dark Souls 3 DlC, Zelda 2, F-Zero X, and then Elden Ring is near the top if that although there are so many variables and stuff you can do that with the right info a lot of that difficulty can be dulled. I tried it before for like 50 hours with no outside help and gave up/lost interest, this time I'm using a spoiler-free guide and finding it much, much more enjoyable and doable.