Data protection, the right to be forgotten, and federation

Hey fellow nerds, I have an idea that I'd like to discuss with you. All feedback – positive or negative – is welcome. Consider this a baby RFC (Request for Comments).

So. I've been having a think on how to implement the right to be forgotten (one of the cornerstones of eg. the GDPR) in the context of federated services. Currently, it's not possible to remove your comments, posts, etc., from the Fediverse and not just your "home instance" without manually contacting every node in the network. in my opinion, this is a fairly pressing problem, and there would already be a GDPR case here if someone were to bring the "eye of Sauron" (ie. a national data protection authority) upon us.

Please note that this is very much a draft and it does have some issues and downsides, some of which I've outlined towards the end.

The problem

In a nutshell, the problem I'm trying to solve is how to guarantee that "well-behaved" instances, which support this proposal, will delete user content even in the most common exceptional cases, such as changes in network topology, network errors, and server downtime. These are situations where you'd typically expect messages about content or user deletion to be lost. It's important to note that I've specifically approached this from the "right to be forgotten" perspective, so the current version of the proposal solely deals with "mass deletion" when user accounts are deleted. It doesn't currently integrate or work with the normal content deletion flow (I'll further discuss this below).

While I understand that in a federated or decentralized network it's impossible to guarantee that your content will be deleted, but we can't let "perfect be the enemy of good enough". Making a concerted effort to ensure that in most cases user content is deleted (initially this could even just be a Lemmy thing and not a wider Fediverse thing) when the user so wishes would already be a big step in the right direction.

I haven't yet looked into "prior art" except some very cursory searches and I had banged the outline of this proposal out before I even went looking, but I now know that eg. Mastodon has the ability to set TTLs on posts. This proposal is sort of adjacent and could be massaged a bit to support this on Lemmy (or whatever else service) too.

1. The proposal: TTLs on user content

1. Every comment, post etc. (content) must have an associated TTL (eg. a live_until timestamp). This TTL can be fairly long, on the order of weeks or even a couple of months
2. well before the content's TTL runs out (eg. even halfway through the TTL, with some random jitter to prevent "thundering herds"), an instance asks the "home instance" of the user who created the content whether the user account is still live. If it is, great, update the TTL and go on with life
   1. in cases where the "home instance" of a content creator can't be reached due to eg. network problems, this "liveness check" must be repeated at random long-ish intervals (eg. every 20 – 30h) until an answer is gotten or the TTL runs out
   2. information about user liveness should be cached, but with a much shorter TTL than content
   3. in cases where the user's home instance isn't in an instance's linked instance list or is in their blocked instance list, this liveness check may be skipped
3. when content TTL runs out and a user liveness check hasn't succeeded, or when a user liveness check specifically comes back as negative, the content must be deleted
   1. when a liveness check comes back as negative and the user has been removed, instances must delete the rest of that user's content and not just the one whose TTL ran out
   2. when a liveness check fails (eg. the user's home instance doesn't respond), instances may delete the rest of that user's content. Or I guess they probably should?
4. user accounts must have a TTL, on the order of several years
   1. when a user performs any activity on the instance, this TTL must be updated
   2. when this TTL runs out, the account and all of its related content on the instance must be deleted
   3. instances may eg. ping users via email to remind them about their account expiring before the TTL runs out

2. Advantages of this proposal

1. guarantees that user content is deleted from "well behaved" instances, even in the face of changing network topologies when instances defederate or disappear, hiccups in message delivery, server uptime and so on
2. would allow supporting Mastodon-like general content TTLs with a little modification, hence why it has TTLs per content and not just per user. Maybe something like a refresh_liveness boolean field on content that says whether an instance should do user liveness checks and refresh the content's TTL based on it or not?
3. with some modification this probably could (and should) be made to work with and support the regular content deletion flow. Something for draft v0.2 in case this gets any traction?

3. Disadvantages of this proposal

1. more network traffic, DB activity, and CPU usage, even during "normal" operation and not just when something gets deleted. Not a huge amount but the impact should probably be estimated so we'd have at least an idea of what it'd mean
   1. however, considering the nature of the problem, some extra work is to be expected
2. as noted, the current form of this proposal does not support or work with the regular deletion flow for individual comments or posts, and only addresses the more drastic scenario when a user account is deleted or disappears
3. spurious deletions of content are theoretically possible, although with long TTLs and persistent liveness check retries they shouldn't happen except in rare cases. Whether this is actually a problem requires more thinkifying
4. requires buy-in from the rest of the Fediverse as long as it's not a protocol-level feature (and there's more protocols than just ActivityPub). This same disadvantage would naturally apply to all proposals that aren't protocol-level. The end goal would definitely be to have this feature be a protocol thing and not just a Lemmy thing, but one step at a time

3.1 "It's a feature, not a bug"

1. when an instance defederates or otherwise leaves the network, content from users on that instance will eventually disappear from instances no longer connected to its network. This is a feature: when you lose contact with an instance for a long time, you have to assume that it's been "lost at sea" to make sure that the users' right to forgotten is respected. As a side note, this would also help prune content from long gone instances
2. content can't be assumed to be forever. This is by design: in my opinon Lemmy shouldn't try to be a permanent archive of all content, like the Wayback Machine