As a Tesla driver (yeah yeah) I’ve noticed in my heavily-Tesla area that 80% of the time when I think someone might have their highbeams on but it’s borderline that it’s a Tesla. It makes me uncomfortable about how bright my own lights are to others. My only consolation is that my car is 6+ years old, so there’s a (slim) chance that the new cars that are being rolled off the line are more poorly aligned than my own. Anyway I don’t know what I could do about it regardless.
Look through the manual to see if there's a way to adjust the angle of your lights, or take it into a service center to see if they can adjust it. I've never owned a Tesla so I can't speak on that with any certainty, but all the other cars I've driven have had relatively easy ways to adjust the headlight angle.