I was about to respond to the points you were making in your prior paragraph, but you saved me a lot of time.
I’d argue that providing me with more free cash flow is better than someone with a low income job.
There it is. How surprising in your careful analysis its your specific circumstances that should benefit over those that have less than you, possibly living in poverty or those that have more than you.
We shouldn’t subsidize lack of motivation or irresponsible procreation by people that can’t afford it.
Ohhh, you need to be careful with this line of thinking. You're defining that higher income is the one metric for determining whether someone is worthy to receive benefits. By your own measure, as you listed here:
I’ve finally gotten to a good salary, but had to endure unnecessary financial constraints.
....and....
Definitely not having kids. Can’t afford that for sure.
... you took on irresponsible debt that made you poor, and you can't afford kids. By your measure you'd be irresponsible in procreating. By your own measures we should be giving money to people that are less irresponsible more motivated to receive benefits. Your logic argues that benefits would be wasted on you because of your past choices and income. Now, I don't buy into any of that.
I believe in quite a few areas of spending that benefits both everyone, and specific groups in certain circumstances which we are able to target with laws or regulation to affect positive change. That includes benefits you likely qualify for, but not to the exclusion of everyone else just because you don't benefit.