What do my personal goals have to do with anything? I want a society based on solidarity, justice, human rights, democracy and without discrimination. More and more people vote and voice support for nationalism, social darwinism, fascism and suppression of diversity. I know perfectly well what I want. I take offense that others don't want my goals and actively want to criminalize me, suppress my rights and more and more openly kill me.
So tell me how do I get my neighbors and fellow citizen to choose peace and love instead of hate and cruelty?
If I knew the path, I'd go it. That's the point you stubbornly refuse to engage with.