who wants the extreme form of anything?
Almost all of your examples are from underdeveloped, poor countries.
Colonized, looted, and impoverished countries. Conquered and despoiled countries.
That's the wages of capitalism. You're not building a prosperous domestic state, you're robbing your neighbors and dolling out the spoils to your minions and allies.
China Texas: The People’s Republic of China Texas State Government is ruled by the Chinese Communist Party (CCP) Republican Party of Texas (GOP). While the economy has undergone market-based reforms and includes private ownership, the government maintains extensive control. The CCP GOP controls all state institutions, and senior government officials are appointed by the party.
Okay? After Greg Abbott wins the next election, he'll have been governor longer than Xi Jinping has been the Chinese president. Nobody seems to care.
We can also play this game with the UK, Mexico, Japan, South Africa, Israel...
Ruling governments can hold power for decades, sometimes even centuries, with capable leadership and popular approval.
The fundamental difference between Abbott and Xi is that Abbott uses his power to export the wealth of his state abroad on behalf of his sponsors while impoverishing enormous swaths of his local population.
Xi's brought wealth back into China, developed it's domestic industry and improved the quality of life, and raised over a hundred million of his people out of poverty.
Abbott's party has to fight tooth and nail to oppress his people in order to stay in power. Xi's party enjoys enormous native popularity and broad national support.