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Hello users of hexbear, I have gone back and tried to unban everyone from the past couple days related to this struggle session.
I was offline most of yesterday so I missed what happened.
From the bottom of my heart I am deeply apologetic to everyone who was hurt by the statements and actions of the past few days. I know it will be a long and tough road to regaining back the trust of the userbase.
We are going to let this post sit for a couple of days and then move towards rebuilding. I'm back today and am happy to answer questions.
- Do not apologize for logging off, you are allowed to live a life
- So I know alot of people are upset at TC69 for various reasons. I wasn't here when she initially was a part of the community, but I had only heard positive things before this shitshow.
  Did she only step down from admin, or did she delete her account? I think it would be a shame if she left entirely due to some pointless struggle session.
  I think stepping down was the correct decision, she probably should have reacclimated to the new hexbear environment before being put in that position to begin with, it's a heavy burden to bear. I still want her to feel welcome here though. I love my trans comrades!
  
  She made the choice to delete her account
  
  It's unfortunate, but if she decided that was the best course of action for her mental health, I will respect it.
  
  It's not unfortunate it's the bare minimum
  And not for her mental health. For the mental health she was inflicting on others.
  Good fucking riddance. Site culture DRAMATICALLY improved when she left.
  People were having anxiety attacks browsing this website. Just so she could be gleefully cruel at random.
  
  Jfc did we drive her away AGAIN!? I am once again insisting nobody do anything about anything while I am asleep/busy.
  Seriously thinking of becoming a mod just to prevent this petty bullshit from tanking the site again
  
  She was banning people randomly for fun
  
  Jfc did we drive her away AGAIN!?
  She was a terrible admin and left after the predictable and justified pushback.
  
  "Drive her away" is certainly one way you can describe the reaction to her conflict resolution skills
  edit: made it less mean
  ::: spoiler old text for if you wanna call me out for it
  "Drive her away" is certainly one way you can describe being mad that she banned people for disagreeing with her and asking questions like "in 15 pages of the modlog there's only 2 removals for 'misogyny'. Even if there were more, why would it be an issue if it's in the modlog? That's where banned posters go."
- Glad you took a break, and very glad you're back.

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