Fwiw, I also appreciate where you're coming from, I'd even say I agree with a lot of it, even if I deeply disagree with the main thrust. I likewise appreciate that hexbear remains a place where these kinds of conversations can be had without always devolving into petty arguments.
Anyway, as I see it, so much of your disdain for applying the term to Russia seems to stem from optics. How liberals will respond, then how anarchists will respond. I get what you're saying and I don't disagree per se. But I think just telling the truth about a country, what it really is from our perspective as Marxists, is what's best for everyone, even if they don't want to or can't hear it. First of all, hexbear is the last place we should worry about liberals and what they think of us. But even if we were being performative for liberals, I personally don't think that sugar coating how things are is a good strategy. Clearly, there is nuance to this issue or we wouldn't be having this conversation. Any lib worth even trying to win over should be able to understand there is more nuance to it than the narrative they're being told. It would be a bad idea to simply go along with their good/bad dichotomy and just talk about Russia as though it's a black and white issue. May as well cow tow and agree with them that Ukraine is just an innocent smol bean that the evil Putler invaded them because he's a big mean marvel supervillian maniac. No material circumstances, no history, just idealism and vibes.
The whole anti-imperialism thing seems, to me, to be a huge part of what turns people off of communism.
Telling the truth about what imperialism is, how it effects the world, how it is the highest stage of capitalism - the very thing we oppose above all else as leftists... turns people off to communism? "One of the fundamental aspects of communism turns people off to communism." Yikes.
Choosing to say things like, Russia is anti-imperialist plays into every single bit of lib propaganda.
No, it's a statement that is directly contrary to every single bit of lib propaganda on the issue. Disagreeing with their simplistic view is playing into their propaganda? I very much disagree. On the other hand, I think laying out the reality of the situation for them is a more important strategy than worrying about whether we 'sound crazy' or some shit. They think we sound crazy for saying that Lenin was right and that Stalin isn't as bad as Hitler. We shouldn't pretend otherwise on those topics and we shouldn't sanitize what's true on any other topic either. If they can accept the importance of anti-imperialism, they can stand to hear that while Russia is another neoliberal capitalist state (that by the way, ironically has had to adopt more and more socialist economic policies, like nationalizing industries, due to the material circumstances of being at economic war with the collective west) and that we oppose such capitalist states, Russia is also serving the interests of anyone in the world who would oppose US hegemony, and playing the most direct role in showing the world that multipolarity is not only possible but inevitable, all of which we fervently support. The comment by @SoyViking@hexbear.net that sparked all this off was lamenting the fact that such a state is also fucking socially reactionary, which all of us hate, and which we should definitely point out if we're talking to libs. I know we knock on libs' intelligence a lot here, but I think most of them can recognize that a thing isn't necessarily all good or all bad.
I'm not going to risk alienating Anarchists from this site any more for the sake of giving russia their flowers.
Who is doing that? If any anarchist is incapable of understanding what I just said above, they are still a lib. Even more so than talking with liberals, we shouldn't try to smooth other the reality that there is nuance just for the sake of optics.
I don't care about what is "correct" or the "best theory," I would rather defecate on putin's face than say a single kind word to him.
Ok this is just weird. What? Am I misunderstanding you? Surely you care what is correct and what the best theory is - I hope?? No one here has to say a single kind word to Putin and no one here will ever get the chance to say a kind word to Putin. Are you saying you think it's important to display the proper level of hatred for that capitalist oligarch in particular in order to win over anarchists? If so, no one said you have to refrain from doing that - just don't also deny the fact that what Russia's government under Putin is doing geopolitically is good for the global south and good for socialist movements the world over.
I don't know the most about Iran, so I won't say anything directly.
I'm not quite an expert either, but I know enough to realize it's another example where the principled position Marxists or leftists in general needs to identify why we support their fight against the Great Satan without supporting their reactionary social policies. But this kind of conversation won't come up when someone here on hexbear calls Iran anti-imperialist, in large part because the West isn't hyper-focused on hating Iran right now the way it is on hating Russia.
The only states we should ever even imply we like are the ones that are in some way reflective of the society we want to build. Unless there is something about their democratic processes (how their people are nurtured and cared for) then we shouldn't imply we like them.
This is just pure idealism imo. We can talk about how we think many things a state is doing is good on the world stage and is even directly beneficial to the states "we like," while also talking about how the same state is doing bad things domestically that we oppose. I don't get all this either/or, we like/don't like absolutism. It's not materialist, it's not dialectical. It sounds like tailism at best, and I don't think it's even helpful when it comes to trying to appeal to people who are ignorant of what imperialism is and how it needs to be opposed.